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The realization came at the Sunday brunch. A week ago, they were sitting together at the breakfast table and had noticed that “it can’t go on like this,” says Kristina. There was no trigger. But: “I noticed that I am not giving Kristina the appreciation and love she deserves,” says Janosch.
After breakfast they talked for a long time. «Many tears have flowed. But we were very respectful of each other. It felt right and wrong at the same time, it was nice and sad, »says Janosch. “We still feel very close.”
Janosch and Kristina then spent a week apart. You with the parents, he in the formerly shared apartment in Cham ZG. They were in daily contact – and they came to realize that “somehow the air is outside”. The words “I’m going to end” were never mentioned, emphasizes Janosch.
You would have had three “world class” years. But: “We have both changed in recent years, perhaps in other directions too – even if that sounds like a cliché,” says Janosch.
First both informed their families that they do not see a future together as a couple, then their closest friends. On Saturday, they then sent an Instagram post to their over 50,000 followers at the same time.
The replacement is a process that will not happen overnight, explains Janosch. “We’re going through this together.” So he helped her over the weekend to pack her things and bring them back to her parents’ apartment, where Kristina moved back to her old room. “That makes the difficult time a little easier when we can treat each other so nicely and respectfully,” says Kristina. She still has the apartment key to the apartment.
In the near future they want to be there for each other “at all times”. This also includes accepting if one of the two needs distance and time for himself.
For Janosch it is clear: He wants to deal with himself first. He was bad at being alone. «Kristina always said to me:‹ Janosch, you have to learn to love yourself. ›»
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