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Matt Hancock resigned as minister after he was filmed kissing an adviser in his office.
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Any change in behavior, even innocent humming, is a sign
Matt Hancock, 42, was Britain’s health minister at the time of the pandemic, and although he was often criticized for the country’s poor treatment of the coronavirus, he still managed to stay in office. But a kiss from a colleague in his cabinet, documented with a hidden camera, managed to force him to resign. The main motive is that he has violated the coronavirus rules for social distancing, but the truth is that behind his reckless act there are even more serious problems. Not only because Hancock and his assistant Gina Coladangelo are married with three children each, but because there are suspicions that their love affair has been going on for a long time and did not begin in May, when the compromising video was made. The two were therefore in a conflict of interest which was not duly declared, as provided for in the English Ministerial Code.
It is alleged that this is exactly what infuriated someone in the Ministry of Health and he handed over the recording to the Sun newspaper. However, the big question of who put a camera in Hancock’s office has not yet been answered, although British special services have launched an investigation, not only in the office of the Minister of Health, but in all government and parliamentary buildings for unregulated recorders. The aim is to guarantee the authorities that they can work calmly in their offices, and to fend off possible attempts to dig into their personal lives, which with the development of modern technologies and online communication channels is becoming easier. In addition, it turns out that the pandemic has unleashed a wave of infidelity and suspicion of such, and private detectives in England are busy with similar cases as never before. “People thought the world would end, and they wanted to enjoy life in any way,” Ali Harris told the Daily Mail. The 54-year-old woman added that only in her detective agency the requirements for tracking broken halves increased by 25% during the coronavirus. “My clients are mostly over 45. This is usually a time in a person’s life when they look at their partner critically and think: Is this my best chance for happiness? Add to that the pandemic factor, and they’re just craving an adventure, ”says Harris.
Her observations are confirmed by some dating sites for family members who want non-committal sexual contacts. For example, illicitencounters.com conducted a study on whether the increased demand for its services actually leads to real relationships and found that about 30% of about 2,000 people surveyed had violated government guidelines such as Hancock not to come into close contact with people from another household. pandemic time to be able to meet a lover.
Some people have had to be quite resourceful to fool their spouses and leave the home office, as options such as imaginary business trips and dinners with colleagues were not possible. There was a sudden urge to play sports, walk the dogs, go fishing or go out in nature to rest your eyes from the computer.
According to Harris, any change in behavior can be a sign of infidelity, not just jealous phone guarding or increased interest in appearance, which is usually seen as suspicious of the partner. Even the frequent nagging or stuttering when asked how they spent the day speaks of nervousness and getting out of the usual state. Some spouses calm down when their spouses increase their sexual interest in them, amid frequent family quarrels. They see it as an attempt to make things better, but this may also be due to the appearance of a lover. A kind of compensation for infidelity, dispelling doubts or quenching the sexual thirst caused by someone else.
It turns out that writing on social networks on common topics betrays the excitement characteristic of adulterers. And Hancock’s favorite is no exception. Although she is the wife of a millionaire and has a very successful lobbying business, Gina Coladangelo has also left traces on the Internet that now arouse suspicion that she has been in a love affair for a long time. In her Pinterest account, she shared the following thoughts years ago: “I’d rather die of passion than boredom” and “The longer you wait, the sweeter the kiss.” She registered on the platform in 2019, when for the first time in the ruling Conservative Party there were rumors about her relationship with Hancock. But then the suspicions are that it is an old story from the student years of the two in Oxford, where they worked together for the student radio station. Moreover, Gina is a friend on Facebook with Hancock’s wife – Martha, who studied with them. The two families visit each other on holidays, and Coladangelo’s appointment to the ministry for just 15-20 days of work a year for a £ 15,000 salary seems more like the service of an old friend, as her consulting work provides her with a pass for the ministry and parliament. the lobbyist dreams.
And both lovers perform quite well in maintaining harmonious family relationships. Before the infidelity scandal erupted, the minister was photographed taking his wife to lunch, playing football with his sons in the park. Gina Coladangelo also masterfully balances her work for him and the care of her large family. The only overnight business trip he can afford is for the G7 health ministers’ meeting in Oxford. He probably wouldn’t have done it if he had known that he had been filmed kissing Hancock in his cabinet days earlier.
Private Detective Ali Harris says tracking trips to hotels and other suitable places for cheating is one of the most common and easy tasks in her job. He usually does this by attaching devices to the suspect’s car that can be used to remotely detect his location. Another reliable method is to check the financial condition. “While watching a husband with a mistress, I discovered that he was running a profitable side business that his wife knew nothing about. When I presented all the evidence to her, I don’t think it was his infidelity that he suspected, but the information about his hidden finances that determined her decision to file for divorce, “said Harris. That’s why private detectives advise their clients to open their eyes to anything that seems different in their partner’s behavior, and to check it even at the risk of accusing them of paranoia, as fraudsters often do.
Women are allowed to have several men in South Africa
The Interior Ministry of South Africa has proposed a law allowing local women to have several husbands once men are allowed to have polygamy. According to his experts, this will achieve gender neutrality of marriage in the country’s legislation.
However, the idea was criticized by the opposition and some celebrities. The African Christian Democratic Party warned that it could lead to serious conflicts among men over the woman’s attention, to the need to do DNA tests to determine which of them is the father of the children in the family.
“We are a spiritual people to whom you think of polyandry are foreign. Our God has made sure that we are created in this image and we should not change it “, commented the South African reality star Musa Mseleku. He himself has four wives and finds his marriages with them to be completely normal and harmonious, but he is also strongly opposed to the ladies being given the right to more legal partners.
In general, polyandry is rare. It flourished in some tribes and the relationship between men was initiated by a woman who invited them into the common marriage. Some of them pay her a dowry, others help her with the housework. The wife can also remove a party to the marriage if she decides that he is threatening her relationship with other men.
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