The sad story of a mother of a man who canceled his wedding in Palembang, admits he was shocked to be yelled at by a potential son-in-law because of Rp. 700,000 cash Pages all

KOMPAS. com – Eli, Anjas’s mother is a man of origin Palembang who called off their wedding because the bride-to-be, worried about the lack of Rp. 700,000, gave vent to her heart.

Anja’s mother did not expect that the money dispute would cause her son to annul his marriage to a woman from Belambangan village, Pengandonan district, Ogan Komering Ulu (OKU) regency. South Sumatra.

Eli admitted he was shocked when his son made the decision cancel the wedding H-1 before the event, due to financial problems.

She said her family did not get good treatment from her ex-future-in-law’s family when she visited his home.

“At that time, only a few people came to his house, including the three of us, myself, Anjas and his father, while his brother and sister were at the inn,” Eli said.

Initially Anjas, mother and future son-in-law the women talk in the bridal chamber, but they don’t make a good decision.

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Women actually questioned the lack of money for marriage.

Rp is still missing in view of the wedding. 7.7 million in cash. Anjas agreed, but in installments.

When he gave Rp. 6 million, the bride-to-be asked where the rest went.

Eli replied that with 1 million money he had bought clothes for the bride according to the woman’s wishes and finally, after knowing that with 1 million money he had bought clothes for her, he said yes.

“I asked what the Rp 7.7 million was for and the woman said it was for the delivery box of goods and groceries,” Eli said, recalling the incident.

However, the bride-to-be claimed that money was not included in the calculation at the time of delivery, there was no mention of food money.

Meanwhile, the remaining less than Rp. 700,000 will be paid later because Anjas’ family has no more money in hand.

Instead of understanding, the bride-to-be got angry and pointed to Anjas’ mother and threatened to cancel the wedding because the 700,000 rupees had not been paid immediately.

Anjas’ mother was surprised by the attitude of the woman who was supposed to be her daughter-in-law.

“No, it’s not necessary. It’s not a loan. If you’re not ready, you don’t have to get married,” Eli said as he practiced how a bride points to herself and her son as she knocks on the door.

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After being mistreated, Anjas and her mother returned home and told other family members about this problem.

Anjas also immediately sent Rp deficit. 700,000 by bank transfer, and instead she did not want to continue this marriage.

He admitted that he was hurt when his mother was treated disrespectfully by the woman he was about to marry.

Eli managed to talk his son out of being careless and demanded that the event continue. But Anjas insisted on canceling the wedding.

“I haven’t become a wife yet, she’s brave enough to be, especially when she becomes one later,” Eli said, mimicking what Anjas had said at the inn.

Previously reported, Anjas admitted that his future wife’s family even cursed and pointed at Anjas’ mother.

The anger was sparked because Anjas’ family did not provide a Rp deficit. 700,000 compared to Rp. Additional 7 million agreed. Since he didn’t accept that his mother was cursed, Anjas also canceled the wedding the day before the event was held.

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“I was angry (mother was pointed) that was my yours,” said Anjas.

According to Anjas, there was no sense of sadness and regret on his future wife’s face when the wedding was called off.

“Katek looked down (didn’t look sorry) from his face, village head too, I said he snapped to my parents, he said yes, I snapped, don’t you mind I said that” , he added.

Source: Kompas.com (Editor Farid Assifa)

This article was published on TribunSumsel.com with the title Conveys the pain Mother Anjas nominated candidate son-in-law Gegara IDR 700,000: not yet a wife, already courageous

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