Not long ago was artist Tomine Harket (28) TV news in TV 2’s popular reality show «Farmen kjendis». However, it was a short stay when she had to leave the farm after she lost in a sledgehammer against a former handball player Kjersti Grini (50).
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Harket, who is now relevant with his new song “Sit On My Face”, is no stranger to being very honest about sex and have previously talked about how important it is to be open about it.
This is exactly what she also focuses on in last Sunday’s episode of Iselin Guttormsen’s (34) podcast «G-points». Among other things, she eases the veil on dating and girl sex.
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– Big difference
The artist has long been open about the fact that she has dated both women and men, and that as long as she gets a good connection with a person, it does not matter what gender they are.
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She also talks about this in the episode. However, something she has not said much about before is her experiences with dating both women and men – and not least how big the differences actually are.
– Now I only go there for sex, but it is so difficult, since I have so little desire to throw all the men I have been with under the bus. But it’s probably that you suddenly have sex, then you come five times in a very short time with a girl. While in other relationships with men I have come twice in two years, you see? she says.
The 28-year-old adds that she experiences that there is a big difference between women and men when it comes to sex, and says that it feels like “night and day”.
Furthermore, Harket follows up with the fact that she has often heard many women say that they are not a person who tends to have an orgasm, and that it is just difficult. She had also thought the same about herself, but believes that it should not be a difficult task as long as you know what you like.
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When asked by Guttormsen about what she thinks is the reason why it is more difficult with men, Harket says that she thinks it is about her being more confident in women.
– When a boy and a girl have sex, it is for both. While when there are two girls, there is first more focus on one, and then the other. You take a lot more time and it is much more intimate and sensual. It’s a completely different world. Oh, my God, that’s so good, she thinks.
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The 28-year-old explains that she has also been shocked by the body’s physical reaction when she is with a woman, as opposed to a man.
It was when Harket had turned 20 that she had her first sexual experience with a girl. Furthermore, she says that she was always curious about experimenting with girls, and that at first it was only sexual.
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– I have always said that “if I’m a lesbian, it’s just bullshit”. And “if I find a lady I’m in love with, it’s just bullshit.” “But I just will not be,” I had thought. But then I kind of realized that I had not been open to it. So every time there has been an opportunity for that, I have just run, sort of, she says.
The artist follows up that as soon as she opened up to that world, it was some of the best she had experienced.
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However, when See and Hear contacts Harket, she can also say that she reacts strongly to the fact that many men feel threatened by being with women. The first thing they often say when they see her with a lady is “what man has beaten you so badly that you went over to the other side?”, She says.
– I think it hurts that love is torn away from it. That they go straight to the sexual. Of course, sex is a factor, but the feelings have been much greater in female relationships than with men, for me, she says.
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As of now, Harket does not feel any need to put herself in a box and define what she is or is not, even though she experiences that many have an urge to call her something. She finds this difficult, as she falls in love with man, and not with gender.
In conclusion, she says that she prefers women as she sees it now, but that she never knows what it will be like in the future.
Open about sex
Last year when she visited Christine Danckes (37) podcastshe also said that she talks openly about her own sex life with her mother, actress Camilla Malmquist Harket (58).
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– My friends react every time I call mum and say “Lættis, I had sex yesterday, it was great and I came five times”. That’s what I say to mom, and people just say “WHAT? It’s bullshit, “said Harket.
At the time, the songbird further explained that she has always been open to being attracted to girls.
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– But when I have been with girls, I have thought that something is missing, and then I have thought that it is dick. But then I realized that it is not that, it is a “connection” that is missing. Because if you have a sick “connection” with a human being, then it really has nothing to say.
Open about sex life
She also mentioned that she had often experienced ugly comments when she is with a girl. When asked how she reacted to it, she replied:
– I have experienced several men who feel threatened by being close to girls who do not want them that way. I have received several comments such as “can not I go home with you?”, As if it is for him that we are together. Something it really is not, she pointed out.
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