Love between colleagues and work: “We became friends after doing it on the stairs”
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Anaïs is 34 years old and she has been single for 2 years: “I found him on a dating app and after several dates we ended up getting together without either of us really believing in it, more because “We didn’t want to stay alone. It lasted 3 years. It ended without tears and without drama. But after that, I didn’t necessarily want to get back with someone. I remained single by choice by choosing leaving the possibility of meeting someone for sex. Because I didn’t leave that aside. I continued to see men for sex quite regularly, about once a week.”
Anaïs has a colleague she likes but for months, she refrained from making advances towards him: “I didn’t want things to be messy in my work environment. But we still sent each other messages that could be a little heated, about stories, about what we were doing, or not. I took him as a bit of a confidant. Nothing crazy, but it could have caused confusion so regularly, I put him in his place and we stopped talking to each other for several weeks. And then, things ended up getting hotter and hotter and we decided to go on a date. Just for once. The goal wasn’t to get to organize something regular. We didn’t want to get together. But for once, it seemed reasonable to me and I even thought that it wasn’t going to change anything in our relationship. On this point I was right , we kept the same complicity.”
Video. “I don’t want to tell myself that sex has to be the glue of the relationship”
The duo meets after the departure of their colleagues, in the evening, on the stairs of their floor: “We didn’t want to get caught by the people cleaning. We managed that between 7 p.m. and 7:30 p.m., standing, using the steps to make things easier. Then, we went for a drink. It happened very quickly, even if it was very good. I even think it was good because it was very quickly. We had the urgency to make each other cum before having to stop so as not to be surprised. We got to the point. It was really very quick. Then, I was a little defeated but when did we even decided to go out together for a bit. It was good because there was no more sexual tension at all. We didn’t even want to do a round 2 at my place or his place. It wasn’t suggested at all. I think we felt the same way. We had the feeling that we had done the right thing but that it wouldn’t go any further. It was good because it was once and it was is all.”
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Anaïs still thinks about it regularly: “It has become my favorite masturbatory support. I find it super sexy to go down the stairs for a quickie. I don’t think I’ll have the opportunity to do it again, but I I think about it often. I sometimes talk to my colleague about it via messages. I tell him “I thought about you last night” and he completely understands what I mean. We always tell each other our sex stories . We have a yardstick to know if it was good or not. The very good being what we experienced together. It brought us closer together. I think he’s one of my best friends now. I didn’t think so that it was possible to feel that way about someone, but sex brought us closer together and pushed us towards friendship that it’s possible. People often say that sex ruins friendship but I believe that it doesn’t It’s not true, in any case, we prove the opposite. Sex is our glue. We make a lot of jokes about it but we know how to be serious when necessary. I never told anyone what we had experienced together. It’s only up to us.”
According to a survey carried out by the online temp agency QAPA in 2022, one in two French people admit to having already had feelings for a colleague at work. The workplace remains a potential meeting place that many workers do not shy away from. So if romantic relationships are formed at work, what about extramarital relationships? How do these meetings go? Are these relationships lasting? That’s what we tried to find out with this new series of testimonials about dating in the workplace.
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2024-03-16 00:01:35
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