On Sunday, two days after the funeral, the woman gathered her thoughts and wrote a letter that sheds light on everything to do with Gyuri’s life.
About the fateful night he died
“This man refused any medical check-ups or tests until 2010, when he had a stroke. For this reason, no doctor is to blame. Of course, if, professionally speaking, the doctor who came with the first rescue failed to do something, to act accordingly, it’s not my job. But when she came, Gyuri had fully recovered. Not even what he called a panic attack took place in the presence of the doctor. He explained how she felt, answered her questions. “And after I led her to the gate and then I came back, Gyuri was fine.” I sat for a while and then asked him if he didn’t want to go to bed. He said yes and, to my amazement, he easily got to his feet, moreover, he said he did not want to go on crutches. That hadn’t happened in too many days. More precisely, since September 13 (No. Gyuri had injured his foot while fishing) ”.
About the tragedies in his family and distrust of doctors
When I met Gyuri, he was outraged against the doctors. The story of the medical errors that marked his life did not end in his family, but continued with me. I myself passed a little death in 1994, and he witnessed again, as he had witnessed the destruction of the bone system of his beloved sister, Catalina, a few years ago. Although there was no clear diagnosis of cancer, Catalina was given dozens of uninterrupted cobalt therapy sessions. His hair did not fall out, but his spine fractured. At the same time, his mother was put into a diabetic coma by administering simple glucose, without insulin, without even having a blood glucose test before administration, but only later, when the figures showed 900! And then Gyuri’s father became ill with diabetes, and he also went to Heaven in 1992. Diabetes and the horrific complications of the disease took the lives of his brother, Josef, three years ago. When I asked him to call for my rescue in 1994, because I could no longer stand, Gyuri immediately complied, but I saw a terrible fear on his face. The rescue came, I told them that I felt a pain in my abdomen, that I had the sensation of bloating… They palpated my abdomen, they gave me an intravenous calcium, after which they asked me if my feet were warm. . No, they hadn’t warmed up. They told me I had an annex. “But I feel something in my stomach,” I told them, and they replied that my ovaries were inflamed and put pressure on my intestines. The doctors left, the rescue… I got up to go to the toilet, I saw black and I fainted. I recovered pretty quickly, only that black evil happened once, and again. When I got to the hospital, I went straight into the operating room. More than two liters of blood were pouring into my stomach in which a tube had exploded.
About career problems and regrets
“Gyuri’s spirit is not dead. He was released! That I would like to be clear to everyone. Yes, Gyuri was tired, more and more tired of traveling around the country at the concerts set up by Teo (no. Teo Boar, guitarist of the band Blue Workers, founded by Gyuri in 1994), although Gyuri kept telling him: «Oh, Teo, don’t you understand that I’m tired, that I’m a sick man, that I can’t run like that anymore, to run from one locality to another, and to sing? ». Gyuri’s spirit isn’t even going to die because he can’t die! That you don’t see him playing anymore, as if you’ve seen him in recent years, that you don’t have any distractis shows to go to, as if you went a year ago. How did the public show their great love? Not being educated at Gyuri’s concerts and shows, the man? ”Or in the meantime, if she wasn’t a” TV star, “didn’t it matter? How many radio stations in Bucharest broadcast the songs from his most recent albums and how many times? “We are sorry, but it does not fit the policy of our station,” some on the commercial radios replied.
About the vigil, the funeral and the last wishes
“On Tuesday morning (September 27), at IML, when I kissed and caressed him, looking at his smile and his serene forehead, I felt as if he was warming up under my caress. I understood that I had to do what he wanted, not what the world expected. If I could bring a gospel choir from America, he would have liked that, yes. I wish he had sent me more, not just put his music there in the chapel. On Tuesday evening, former colleagues of Iarina (their daughter’s name) came, together with their teacher and teacher, with sores and sad eyes. I was so impressed with these children that they agreed to sing “Amazing Grace” to Gyuri! So is Elena Cârstea. She sang to Gyuri in the chapel at Agnita, even though she was cold, even if she was tired. Gyuri liked to dress as comfortably as possible: jeans, a T-shirt, a sweater and a hat. When I asked Alice Nicolae and Ioana Ancea to go and buy a costume, the words came to my mind: “I am an actor!” That is, let’s not forget which one and take some classic and insipid costume. And indeed, without a tie, because he can’t stand ties! From that moment on, I decided not to let him be exposed, so that his image would never be altered. To live, as people have seen and know him. “
And they died with the regret that they are no longer appreciated as artists
Daniela Marin’s testimonies about Gyuri’s career failures remind us of two other artists, who died with the thought that their music was no longer listened to. Madalina Manole ended her days at the age of 43, on July 14, 2010, and immediately after her death, Gheorghe Gheorghiu said things by name. “Do you want me to tell you why Madalina was unhappy? He had finished an album and no radio station was interested in broadcasting even a song to him “, said the soloist. Mălina Olinescu also ended her accounts on December 12, 2011, at the age of 37. “Suddenly, all the doors closed. I am referring to the doors of record companies which, after they had flattered me before, now refused me “, Mălina Olinescu declared in” Formula AS “.
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