Robert Downey Jr. and Susan Downey: How They Keep Their 18-Year Marriage Strong
By Erin Keller
Published March 14, 2024, 6:35 p.m. ET
Robert Downey Jr.’s wife, Susan, has shared the secret behind their 18-year ironclad marriage. In an interview, she revealed how they manage to keep their relationship strong.
The Two-Week Rule
Susan Downey, 50, disclosed, “We do have a two-week rule, which often feels too long, but we don’t go more than two weeks without seeing each other and the family being together.” This simple rule ensures that they maintain regular quality time as a family.
Preferring to be a Traveling Circus
Susan added, “Fortunately, we prefer to be a traveling circus when we can be.” This lifestyle allows them to embrace adventure and create lasting memories with their children, Exton and Avri.
Beyond the Rule
Robert Downey Jr., 58, also has an older son, Indio, 30, from his previous marriage to singer Deborah Falconer. Susan emphasized the need to stay adaptable, stating, “Someone might get sick, or there might be a shutdown, or this or that. So you just have to have some basic things in place, and then you have to be willing to flow with the rest of it.” Their flexibility and willingness to overcome unexpected obstacles make their marriage resilient.
Success during the Award Season
Robert Jr. had a remarkable award season, winning several prestigious awards for his brilliant portrayal of Lewis Strauss in “Oppenheimer.” During his acceptance speeches, he always expressed gratitude to his wife, Susan, for her unwavering support.
A Sense of Humor
Robert humorously stated at the Oscars, “I’d like to thank my veterinarian — I mean my wife, Susan Downey, over there. She found me a snarling rescue pet and you love me back to life. That’s why I’m here.” His witty words highlight the couple’s ability to keep their relationship fun and lighthearted.
An Enduring Partnership
Robert and Susan met on the set of the 2003 film “Gothika,” where Susan worked as a producer. Their connection was instant, and they got engaged just three months later, eventually tying the knot in 2005. Robert acknowledged his wife’s role during the SAG Awards, saying, “For 22 years, she has flawlessly portrayed a sane and rational individual who is happily married to an actor.” Their complementary partnership has stood the test of time.
Disclaimer: This article is purely fictional and does not depict real events or individuals.
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