Finding Healing After Heartbreak: A Woman’s Journey of Self-Discovery and Love

But little by little I am making progress, I hope that everything will be healed soon. It got easier when I realized that the person who hurt me the most never loved me. He just speculated with feelings, created an illusion of them.

Everything in life must be mourned, including lost relationships. However, grief has to be organic, you don’t have to be particularly sad.

A woman is in a lot of pain after a broken relationship, because she gave her heart to a man. She still loves him, it hurts because part of her heart is with him. As soon as she gets it back, peace will come. And then she blames herself – why did I drag this relationship on for so long and not run away at the first offense?

I have suffered a lot in relationships, so I believe that I have been married only once – to Sergej. We have a son in our family and I am a widow. With that, everything is boring. At my age, the topic of nesting is no longer relevant, but I do not deny that a miracle can happen. On the other hand, I’m so made up that I don’t want a new relationship. I will never get back the time I spent on a failed relationship. It is better to write a beautiful poem.”

Sergej Akurater was Akurater’s husband and the father of her son Matis. She believes that Sergey is the only one who truly loves her. Sergej once battled with lung cancer and has now passed away.

Read the full interview with Akurateri in the publication “Eve Stories” in the latest issue!