Exaggerated luxury and perfect look
The scammer usually looks too perfect, at first glance it is surrounded by ostentatious luxury and looks more like a model. But why would anyone like that be on a date?
Rich and successful people will not be on ordinary cheap dating sites, they prefer to register on paid sites where they can meet people from their circles. They will also not have an exaggerated desire to pull out their property and thus attract potential gold diggers.
If, for example, Simon Leviev from the Netflix documentary were the real son of the Diamond King, he would certainly not be short of women. And if he wanted to date, because of his family reputation, he would register on a private dating site, which would offer him sufficient anonymity.
Come write, I’m online
Scammers spend their time online all the time, a busy person tends to have a clear rhythm, when they go to bed, when they go to work and when they perform normal activities. Scammers are online almost all the time, but other times they have delays of several days.
Their common sign is that they are trying to get you from the site you met as soon as possible, asking you for WhatsApp to get your phone number and to be able to communicate with you day and night. In particular, they try to avoid blocking sites where they are looking for victims. You could report them.
Send photos, darling
Don’t just talk about sex, don’t listen to its romantic words. If you are a baby and a sweetheart from the beginning, give yourself a break. Have fun with everyday life topics, they can be tiring for scammers.
Some want you to fall in love with them as soon as possible and send them money, while others may try to blackmail you by posting your nude photos and erotic news. So never send you.
How not to succumb?
Do not share your data with anyone to the card, account, do not send anyone a photo of your ID, passport or lend or donate money to you until you are sure that it is your partner, whom the whole family knows and with whom you have had a strong relationship for several months. There are even clever people who rob their partners, but there are only a few.
Talk about it with your surroundings. You can ask a psychologist, therapist, friends, colleagues or family. When we fall in love, we do not see or hear. As a rule, we ignore warning signals, so we should listen to our surroundings if they warn us that something is not playing here. If you know that you would like to divulge some information about your loved one to your surroundings, take it as a warning signal.
Look for information about the person, always ask for a personal appointment. Try to get to know his friends and family as quickly as possible and watch him behave in their presence. Observe how a person responds to stress. Even though he promises you that you are his only one, always check that he is not active on dating even after he has promised eternal allegiance to you …
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