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During those ten months, the newlywed couple had shared the bed, but the husband had insisted all along using only his hands. All sex happened in the dark. As a result, the woman, named Nur Aini according to local media, did not know what kind of meat she really had in the tub. “I was in a relationship as husband and wife, but I didn’t know that the person I slept with was a woman,” Nur told Indonesian news site Surya.co.id.
She is now demanding compensation from her partner, who did not just lie about his gender. “He” also claimed to be a New York graduate neurologist. That also turned out not to be true.
Nur Aini had met Ahnaf Arrarif through a dating app and shortly afterwards physical ‘dating’ started. Ahnaf even spent a week sleeping with his betrothed to help care for her sick parents. After a short time, he proposed and on July 18, 2021, the couple married in Jambi, the groom’s hometown.
The ‘doctor’ with ‘his’ wife.
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The wedding was a so-called nikah siri or ‘secret’ marriage. In Indonesia, many marriages are not registered and therefore only recognized religiously. For Ahnaf Arrarif this meant that he did not have to show an ID card.
After four months of marriage, Nur Aini’s parents became suspicious. The son-in-law had never introduced anyone from his own family to them, had a particularly leisurely schedule for a medical graduate, and never took off his clothes in front of another. Ahnaf even bathed in clothes when there were others in the house. The presence of breast-like lumps on the breast were dismissed as ‘hormonal problems’.
When eventually he was demanded to undress to prove he was a man, Ahnaf actually confessed to being a woman and his name was Erayani. Whether that is her real name remains unknown. Everything turned out to be a lie. ‘Erayani’ now has to answer for the judge.
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