Although stormy breakups are always the order of the day in the celebrity scene, as it makes clear the recent split between Zayn Malik and Gigi Hadid, whose relationship was seen through the unreal filter of Instagram as a movie love story, it is becoming common that the political correctness that reigns in the world of fame has also reached ruptures. Faced with heated discussions and media divorces, since Gwyneth Paltrow imposed emotional “good vibes” with her idyllic divorce from Chris Martin (who goes on vacation with Paltrow and her current husband), it has become normal for celebrities and influencers put an end to your relationships by making use of smiley emojis and hearts. Are drama and tears a thing of the past? Has the perfectionist will got out of hand to the point that we no longer allow ourselves even a break that goes beyond the ‘Instagrammable’ canons?
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Amelia Bono and Manuel Martos announced their separation through Instagram, the new press office for celebrities, at the beginning of July through an image in which the couple posed together and smiling. “Our love and our affection will continue to be just as important, just as beautiful, just as great, but different. And we will continue to live our happiness with our children and families in the same way as before. We have been, are and will continue to be a happy family. Always, ”Amelia herself explained. Something similar happened with Dulceida and Alba Paul. At the beginning of the summer, they revolutionized social networks by announcing that they were going to take a while, and both have communicated the non-return of their love to their millions of followers while uploading images of some of their happiest moments as a couple along with missing texts. of edges or resentments.
“I believe that the breakups of some influencers are handled with extreme care due to image issues, child custody or long and expensive divorces. In other words, they are not ordinary breakups, because they are not marriages like everyone else’s. These marriages have the pressure of the image and that everything that surrounds the breakup can reach the public eye. This can put more pressure on the already difficult time of ending a relationship. Regardless of whether there is romanticization or Disney love, it is key to see the interests that are shared within the couple and how they have managed their marriage and their relationship. Be that as it may, a breakup can always be a difficult step for a relationship and it is more important to manage it consistently and with respect for what was shared. More important than we show it to others is the care taken to make the rupture a complete cycle closure where those involved do what they consider to gain peace of mind and can put an end to that love relationship ”, explains María Pasión , Meetic’s Love Coach.
The dangers of the “happy ending”
Paranormal relationships push us to live the adventures and sentimental misadventures of celebrities as if they were those of our close circle, so each turn of the script in its emotional evolution ends up affecting us. That is also the reason why when seeing how influencers and celebrities boast of idyllic loves in their networks, where their smiles are highlighted as if that were not enough with all kinds of luxuries and ostentations, at the same time their relationships are responsible for that on many occasions, we think that ours are not good or passionate enough.
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As Internet entrepreneur and academic Kalev Leetaru explained to ‘Forbes’, “a growing body of research and argument suggests that being saturated with images so perfect in which each scene represents life at its best can make people less happy when they compare their staged images with their own lives ”. The “still” positivity for social media has gotten so far out of hand that even now the breakups have to be perfect as well. Therefore, when in real life our relationships suffer a setback and we find that emotionally we are closer to the divorce of Angelina and Brad than that of Kim Kardashian and Kanye, the psychological consequences at such a delicate moment can be devastating.
