My husband’s family only has two children. Everyone said that I married him like a “rat with rice” because his family is well off, his mother-in-law pampers her son, so she will definitely pamper her daughter-in-law.
Before marrying him, I was also very happy because although he did not speak much, I saw that he also cared and loved me. Several times when I went to his house to play, my mother-in-law also showed me affection. My family is also happy that I have found a basic family to entrust my life to.
From the wedding night, every time I slept with my husband, I had the feeling that my mother-in-law opened the door unexpectedly. (illustration)
But on the wedding night, I was quite surprised by the behavior of my mother-in-law.
When my wife and I were preparing for the joyful moment of our first day together, when we heard a knock on the door, our mother-in-law said, “Don’t overdo it, stay healthy”. I was quite shocked, but thinking that she cared about our health, she also let it go.
The next day too, sometimes the mother-in-law would stand at the door and say “whatever you do, you have to be moderate so that Q (my husband) can still work tomorrow”.
I complained to my husband and mother who interfered too much in our marriage, he said, since marrying me, he has had to sleep away from his mother, and his mother’s family is widowed and orphaned, so she always keeps his children like children, always cuddling, even sleeping with boys.
Perhaps someone naturally separated her from her son, so she was not used to it, so she acted like that.
Even if my husband explains it like that, I always feel abnormal and have always been insecure lately. Every time I sleep with my husband, I have the feeling that my mother-in-law opens the door unexpectedly. I am afraid that if this continues forever, I will have an anxiety disorder, I don’t know what to do now?.
