The size of their penis worries and complexes many men, who fear that they will be able to “honor” their partner. In the show Without an appointment, on Europe 1, Catherine Blanc, sexologist and psychiatrist, answers the question of a listener who is afraid of not giving enough pleasure to his partner because of the size of his penis.
Hugo’s question
“I have a feeling that my friend is not having a lot of fun, and I wonder if it is not due to the size of my penis, too small for my taste?”
Catherine Blanc’s response
The size of the penis is not what matters. The vagina is a virtual cavity, it is a sheath. The two walls touch and will mold to what penetrates them. The vagina will be able to stretch and widen, depending on the size of the penis. Unless you have a penis smaller than the vagina itself, about 7 centimeters, it will stress the walls of the vagina. Everything then depends on how we are going to solicit a point on the body or another.
Why does this worry men so much?
When a little boy is built, he is built with the idea that he will become a man. To become a man is often to become like a dad. And for a child, dad is a great person, even if he hasn’t seen him naked. The idea of the power to come, if it is seen from the point of view of the little boy, it is the idea of the perception that he has of himself and that of what he would like to become, to know his father.
Furthermore, penetration is not the only source of pleasure …
From the moment a woman is caressed or penetrated by a finger, she can have extraordinary pleasures. And yet, a finger and a penis have no common measurements, so we can see that it is not a question of size. It really is in the male fantasy, and the power that man can imagine for himself.
In the female fantasy, the more she is in doubt about her ability to enjoy, to be fulfilled, the more she will want the other to be representative of something huge to fill it. The more a woman feels empty, the more she will look for someone who will be able to fill her significantly. It’s not just the penis, it can also be a big wallet, big muscles, a big motorbike, which conjure up the idea of someone extremely full.
How to be sure that she is not having fun, maybe he is wrong?
Pornography has given us only one version of female pleasure, since unlike a man who has erections, a woman can not see much, so we wait until she screams, howls , she begs, to let imagine the quality of her pleasure.
Can’t he ask her directly?
I think it would make her smile, then she would say but no. Even if it is a case where she feels extremely empty, in any case, women are often extremely elegant and mothering saying but not ‘he is perfect, he is great’, but in reality he is, c is the relationship that will be decisive. The penis is only the fruit of the relationship between them.
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