Nadia Petrova
Today is 8th of March – celebration of the woman and the day can still pass between the drops and according to a pattern – flowers, greetings and the same emptiness behind the mask with a joyful grimace.
Knowing that we cannot turn back even one second of time, let us this time say a few truths that will give a different flavor to the usual greetings today and in the future.
The first truth is that it is lucky to be born a woman. We are a cocktail of emotions – from the highest to the lowest. We can cry even just for the sadness of something vague, but beautiful, kind, beloved, wise, gentle, loving and pure, which our soul has touched. It’s like opening a door to another world that you want to stay in, but you can’t, and that’s why you cry. Don’t forget this pain, it’s as sweet as a hug you melt into. I think it belongs only to women.
We women sometimes have the chance to meet the man who tells us most sincerely that he wants to build us a white house on top of the hill. Or that he wants to be the driver who drives us into the night with soft music under the round moon and to the end of the world. And we love the poetry of feelings and can appreciate the beauty of the moment. Besides, sometimes we are ready to feed ourselves for a lifetime from such a moment. Only children and women can do that. It is a gift.
My mother really wanted me to be a boy, and when she found out she had a second daughter, she said “Too bad!”. I came into this world as a disappointment. That’s probably why I keep making excuses for this and that. Although I don’t want to. But karma! I have written down several verbs in a notebook, the meaning of which I should never reveal. I don’t have to Justify, Blame, Explain. Don’t either, because as Mahatma Gandhi said, “No one can offend me unless I let them.”
So, I advise you to love yourself because that will keep away anyone who wants to hurt you. Keep your head up. No matter how deep the waters you tread, don’t drown in your own complexes or grief. The world is not for those who constantly self-analyze in search of a subjective sense of perfection that de facto does not exist. Be perfect in your mistakes because they are the only way to know yourself. He who does not know himself knows no one. So please be wrong. But not fatal. And when you’re wrong, take it as another master’s degree earned, not as a double on the exam. Never forget that the world is suffering from cannibalism. If you show weakness, you will be attacked. Brag about your mistakes and then they will respect you.
When we are angry, jealous and afraid, when we take sleeping pills and wake up at 3 and 5 in the morning, when we think about death, about betrayal, about poverty, about loneliness, about illness, about shame, about the terror that we will the day has come when our heart will break like a stone frozen by ice, then we must take advantage of the strongest card that life gives us – hope. Don’t doubt that you didn’t get it in the giveaway. You have it! Take it out and smite with it every shadow and darkness, every enemy and evil power. Stand up and light the fire of love in your heart. Because love is the diamond of life. Love is the secret power of women, which from a single spark turns into warmth and comfort in our very essence. As long as we have it, we will live. If it goes out forever, though alive, we will be dead.
So please let’s stop with our women’s numbers – they are cheap. Let us be good and love. This is us – the warmth, light and tenderness of life!
That’s why it’s a blessing to be a woman. Happy holiday!
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