Much has been said about the cardiac arrest suffered by
the sexualitybut has not been sufficiently explored
libidinous revolution, and silentwhich was developed in parallel to
try to revive libido and explore new options with which to achieve pleasure. After a long period in which we have seen each other
forced to rediscover ourselvesself-discovery has been vital in that
sexual arousal which we attend.
This is what the British Emma Sayle, creator of the
plataforma digital Killing Kittensdedicated to
female sexual empowerment, which indicates that more and more people are encouraged to follow their virtual workshops; of them, the initiation guides to the
tantric or BDSM messages have been the most acclaimed. A recent study by the Kinsey Institute for Sexual Research indicates that 30% of women now have
more pleasurable sex than before the pandemic.
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After all, those months of darkness gave us the opportunity to rethink what we really wanted. According to the data obtained, 46% dare to
experience more between the sheetsa figure that is ratified by the dating app Bumble, which indicates that more than 40% of its users have changed
the way he deals with sexwhile 22% plan to express their wishes in a different way than they did last summer.
Lara Ferreiroa psychologist from the Ashley Madison extramarital dating platform, points out that the new generations are more likely to
leave behind the traditional model than those that precede them, something that he checks every day in the therapies he conducts and in which more and more couples come to negotiate
how to open your relationship and under what rules do it. “It is beginning to be a cultural revolution. More and more people are
moving away from traditional monogamy and tend to approach more open concepts. This new way is flexible and unique to each couple. It means changing the agreement of the relationship to improve it », he explains.
–Aura García-Junco, author of The day I learned that I don’t know how to love (Seix Barral), also believes that things are changing, due to “the rise of feminism and
new windows that give voice to women, as complex and desiring entities. Little by little, a new gap opens up and more people realize that sex can be a
space of enjoyment and discoveries inside or outside of sexual-affective relationships, for men, women and non-binary people alike”, he points out.
The world of fashion, expert in
reflect the pulse of the presentadvocate now for
fetishistic tendencies in which leather, latex and corsets have become protagonists. It is no coincidence that, in full sexual awakening, fashion defends trends that not only claim
the power of the adjective sexybut embrace, almost shamelessly, the
bdsm world. Richard Quinn takes the universe of domination to the catwalk and converts his
models in dominatrixes, precisely at the moment when a former dominatrix is at the epicenter of fashion conversations.
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Julia Foxthe fleeting partner of rapper Ye, who speaks shamelessly about his past in this world and who has left his personal stamp on the last
versace fashion show. The sexologist Alba Povedano assures that during the last years
women have become more
sexually active thanks, in part, to a ubiquitous sex toy. “Undoubtedly, the sucker boom made people
talk more about masturbationwhich has made many women dare to speak more freely about their sexuality, show themselves
more active and claiming that pleasure», he points out.
In fact, the fact that in recent years we have had to verbalize the
contact forms and consent (Who hasn’t asked someone during these months if they can hug them?) has helped us lose the fear of the word within the sphere of intimacy. Returning to the streets, we have not only put on our
women’s leather trench coatsbut also desire. “We can literally be having digital sex over a family dinner. Let’s say that sex can overflow from the spaces and moments that it traditionally had designated, “he says.
Aura Garcia-Junco.
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In this area we cannot stop talking about
wearable sexual technologyso in vogue according to the
informe Sex Trends 2022which has meant that more and more products are conceived for
be used outside the home. In this way, self-pleasure is now considered an act of well-being that can be enjoyed in spaces far from the traditional ones. Yes:
sex has run away. She has escaped from the sheets, conventionality and norms. In a world
tired of prohibitions and restrictionspleasure has become the best ally to try to recover a freedom, if not lost, certainly longed for.
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