Even in a dream, I can’t imagine, at this age, I still have to shed tears because of my husband’s affair.
It’s embarrassing to say. I turned 50 this year, and my husband is 55 years old. After 30 years of marriage, we had 2 children. Daughter is now married and settled abroad. My son is married and now lives with his parents.
Before, I was always proud to have a happy family. Even though my husband is over 50, he always takes his wife to breakfast every morning. When he’s excited, he rushes into the kitchen to cook for the whole family. We’ve been married for many years, but my husband and I still have the same feelings as the first day. When the new daughter-in-law came back to live, seeing that we loved each other like husband and wife, she whispered:
“Well, I just want my husband to be equal to one corner of your father. But now he is very peachy, I don’t know if there is another woman behind his wife’s back.”
Even though both of them begged me to let go and said they’ve only been together for a month, I still couldn’t accept it. (Illustration)
It is true that I used to be very proud of my husband and my 30-year marriage. My husband himself has never done anything to make his wife sad. He also said:
“A father is a mirror for his children. If I am not serious, how can I raise two good children?”.
Therefore, when I heard my daughter-in-law confided that recently my son had many strange signs, my husband was very angry. He asked to kick me out of the house.
But that said, we don’t have any evidence that our son is having an affair, so I advise my husband to stay calm and act like he doesn’t know what’s going on.
On the one hand, I encourage and advise my daughter-in-law not to be suspicious. On the other hand, I did my own investigation to find evidence that my son was having an affair. If this is true, I will come out and solve it on behalf of my daughter-in-law.
For more than a week now, I keep watching my son, so I don’t pay attention to my husband. Then yesterday morning, when I was going to the market, my son’s motorbike passed. Normally, he uses a car to go to work, but yesterday he rode a motorbike. At that time, I felt very strange. Not to mention, the people in the car were also sealed from top to bottom, so I had more grounds to suspect.
I hurriedly got in the car to follow my son’s car. But when I got to the hotel, I lost track of it, and the reception didn’t tell me the number of the room he booked. In the end, I had to wait outside for nearly 2 hours. Wait until they check out. Unable to hold back my anger, I rushed over and took off my hat and mask.
But at that moment, I was dumbfounded when I realized that it was not my son but my husband. Because the two of them are similar in stature, he was driving his son’s car, so I didn’t recognize him.
Correct! My husband had an affair at the age of 55 with a woman nearly 20 years younger than him.
Even though both of them begged me to let go and said they’ve only been together for a month, I still couldn’t accept it. For many years, we lived together very happily. Why did he choose to have an affair?
From the moment I returned home until now, I have lost my soul. My husband has lost his image. Yet he still stubbornly begged me to forgive him and not tell his children.
He said we were old, if we made a fuss about this, it would be embarrassing for the bride-in-law and the grandchildren. But how can I pretend like nothing happened? At this age, if I think about divorce, is it too much?
