Approaching sex without taboos is the challenge of two sexologists, including Gersoise Sandra Marques. More than 30 customers recently ended up in an Irish pub in Jégun, near Auch. Reportage.
A neon clitoris tagged in front of the entrance to the pub in the colors of Ireland. Inside, small heart-shaped cakes in the middle of the flags of the Six Nations Rugby Tournament.
This Sunday in Jégun, not far from Auch (Gers), the pub La Légende irlandaise run by Michael makes fun by hosting the third sexo café in the countryside. “It’s nicer to talk about sex here, without taboos, than in a sexology office! “, Rejoices the boss.
In his pub, about thirty “clients”, Gersois, straight couples, gay people, a theater teacher and an average of canonical age. A majority of women also come to listen and take advice from two sex therapists and couple therapists, the Auscitaine Sandra Marquès and the Poitevin Philippe Arlin, whose book “Charly, le chat du sexologue” is invited before entering the subject . The author and sexologist has already largely deflowered the secrets of the alcove with ex-porn star Brigitte Lahaie on Sud Radio.
“There, it looks like a cooking recipe!”
Between the sacrosanct clitoris and the god penis, it is a question of deconstructing the prejudices during this session of free sexology, between consenting adults. “It hurts during penetration, what is it due to? “
The question, which has been asked many times in the discretion of a firm, is raised without detour, between two beers. “There may be a psychological problem at the origin …” warns the talkative Philippe Arlin, showing off a red plastic clitoris.
Lack of desire, erection problem …, the classic before “turning on the gas under the stove”. “Is there a point in humans to prevent premature ejaculation? Dares a customer leaning against the bar but hanging on the answer. “If we knew we would be very rich! “Enthuses the specialist. “According to the labs, one in three men suffer from premature ejaculation,” said Sandra Marquès. “So how do you hold back the pressure …?” »-« Because when it goes up, it goes up … », -« Yes, and the pleasure and there! Added a young man, accompanied by a group of friends. – ” Oh ! but here it looks like a cooking recipe! “, Launches a fifties, a glass to his lips. “It all relates to the state of stress that we put ourselves, cropping the sex. There may also be hypersensitivity of the glans ”. And the woman “fountain” in all this?
The question valve is flowing abundantly. “Yes, there may be urine leakage in these secretions. And the equivalent of early ejaculation in women also exists … Yes, gentlemen, women can enjoy very quickly. ” – “But there are fewer of them than men,” says Sandra Marquès. Languages loosen, curiosity becomes viral, close to the coronasexus. Haro on the notion of performance, “invention of social representations”. Finally, we close the antics with a central question: “What pleasure can I give my companion by fingering?” ” – “It depends on its ability to transform a sensation into orgasm,” says the specialist. 3:30 p.m., end of discussions, it’s time for France-Scotland and its testosterone festival.
Facebook censorship
Excessive prudishness or the work of the zealous algorithms of the American social media giant? The shimmering poster of this sexo cafe in Jégun was simply censored by Facebook when the invitation to come and share this little moment of exchange with the two sexologists appeared on the initiative of sexologist Sandra Marquès. The poster featured an Irish leprechaun in Adan’s outfit with a rugby ball to hide his gender. According to Facebook, it was this illustration that was at issue and not the sex or sexo items. “Ads should not include adult content. This includes nudity scenes, depictions of people in explicit or suggestive positions, and excessively suggestive or sexually provocative activities, “replied the communications agency.
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