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Nabilla and Thomas: Confinement does not necessarily do good to couples. Being locked up together all day for weeks is getting long, even for the most couples lover. It is completely normal to feel tired. The lack of the other hardly exists any more and this feeling is however necessary for the blooming of the love desire. But even knowing this, it is complicated to make sense of things. The confinement pushed Thomas and Nabilla to stay apart. The young man confides in Snapchat.
Thomas Vergara, Nabilla’s husband, says the couple are going badly
It’s Wednesday, April 22 that Thomas Vergara tells about his marriages. On his Snapchat account, the young man explains to his fans that things are not going very well between him and Nabilla. Because the containment start to get on their nerves. He and Nabilla are also young parents. Their son Milann recently celebrated his six months. For all parents, confinement or not, young children upset the daily life of a couple.
The love of life is 6 months old today ???? pic.twitter.com/Njwnuy6OZY
– Nabilla Vergara (@Nabilla) April 11, 2020
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The attention normally focused on the partners turns to this little being. You have to know how to keep room for personal fulfillment too, so the couple comes third priorities affective. All young parents around the world experience this confusing phenomenon of leaving a lot of room for the baby to arrive. Again, this is a completely normal phenomenon. But to the despair of Nabilla and Thomas Vergara, all these changes they must live in confinement.
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A growing lack of communication due to confinement
The young man deplores the lack of communication that is growing in his relationship. Thomas Vergara rightly points out that both must have fed up to be together all the time. When confessing to his fans on Snapchat, the situation seemed dramatic for the couple. However, he would like to stress that they are not getting a divorce either. He thinks that confinement accentuates the annoyances of everyday life and favors futile arguments.
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The strongest couples are put to the test by confinement measures. Even if Thomas Vergara has been in a relationship with Nabilla for several years, he is normal to meet this kind of disappointment. The lovers have been together since their meeting in 2013, in the reality TV show The Angels of Reality TV 5. They have overcome many hardships together since then. Like the case that brought Nabilla to court. A couple’s argument went awry and ended in bodily harm. Nabilla had attacked her companion with knives.
Nabilla and Thomas Vergara are not in their first fight
If they have been able to overcome this, they will certainly be able to overcome everything. In 2019, the couple is getting married to London, a month after Nabilla’s pregnancy was announced. They have everything to be happy but that does not mean that they will experience their baby’s arrival in their lives and containment differently.
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Fortunately, Thomas Vergara’s confessions on Snapchat must have been heard by his wife. And the latter then tells how Nabilla managed to relaunch contact between them. She sent him a tamagotchi under the door of the room he occupies. This little animal virtual as a tiny game boy. She also added that he could take care of the tamagotchi if he did not want to take care of her. A disguised way for Nabilla to ask for attention from her man.
???????????????? https://t.co/A1oAt9mANQ
– Nabilla Vergara (@Nabilla) April 23, 2020
Difficult to stay the course of the couple in such a special situation
Indeed, in confinement we have the feeling of always being one on top of the other as a couple. Yet the attention is sorely lacking. This phenomenon is explained by the absence of lack. In the absence of the lack, our partner is always before our eyes and it begins to be confused with the furniture of our place of life. It is therefore natural that desire is lacking. Also, in the absence of social life, the gaze of others who participates in self-esteem becomes rare. All these elements cumulative lead couples to contradictions. The need for recognition, for attentions is growing stronger while at the same time, weariness and the absence of lack are growing.
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It is therefore not easy to live containment in a fulfilling way with your partner. The advice of specialists on this subject is to make sure you see each other as little as possible and to do as little as possible together. It may sound strange, but the confinement situation is new too. It is necessary by all means to recreate the lack to again arouse the desire of the other for oneself and that of oneself for the other.
No doubts, the lovers will be reconciled and find solutions to avoid continuing to sleep apart. In their big house, they necessarily have the place of to put implement the advice of couple specialists. They’ll find the want and desire they’ve had for each other for all these years. And then they also have something else to think about since the arrival of this little bit in their lives. If it’s not for them, they’ll make the effort to take a step towards the other for their son and everything will go back to normal.
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