My husband and I both come from rural areas, same commune but different villages. When they reach the age of marriage but their fate never comes, they both “relax” into ambiguous relationships. Finally, we met and got married through matchmaking from both sides’ relatives.
When we first met, both my husband and I had a faint impression of each other. The reason we were able to get married is because I didn’t mind his family being poor, and he didn’t criticize me for being short and fat.
When we got married, his house only had an old three-room wooden house, his younger sister was in middle school, his father was kind and honest, his mother was sick and bedridden all year round, and he was the only person working in the house. family.
After getting married, I encouraged and encouraged my husband to work with me in the city. At that time I was working as a salesperson in a shopping center. Seeing my husband’s potential, I spent money for him to study car repair. The couple lived hard in a small rented room.
I never expected that when the family started to have money, my husband would have an affair with a beautiful young girl. (Illustration: Lawnet)
5 years passed, when my husband finished his vocational training and had good skills, I borrowed some money from my biological parents and discussed with him renting a spacious space in a town near my hometown to open an auto repair shop.
Because my husband has good skills, we are hard-working and attentive to customers, and our prices are reasonable, so the business is very effective. In just over 3 years, we have bought a house in town, accumulating a decent amount of capital.
The economy is stable, my husband and I are thinking about having children. When I first got pregnant, I still worked regularly. However, from the 6th month until now, my belly has grown so heavily that I am quite tired and only occasionally go to the store.
I thought that life had turned a new page, and now I could wholeheartedly focus on being a housewife and taking care of my family. Unexpectedly, the storm came.
I never expected that when the family started to have money, my husband would have an affair with a beautiful young girl.
I discovered this when looking through my husband’s saved chat history. Feeling resentful, I immediately asked him why he could betray his good wife and overcome so many difficulties with him.
Contrary to my expectations, my husband did not repent, regret or fear. When he revealed the matter to a third person, he did not promise to end it with her but calmly said: “If you can turn a blind eye to these gossips, I won’t divorce you.”
Unable to believe my husband’s cruel words, I left a sentence: “If you don’t break up with that girl, I will definitely divorce, take half of the property and get custody of the children.” then walked out of the house and returned to his parents.
Currently, I have filed for divorce, but my husband is looking for everyone in our family, asking for advice, asking me to think about the unborn child, hoping I will give him a chance to correct his mistakes. Give your child a family full of parents.
I fell into a state of uncertainty, wanting to ask everyone, should I continue with the divorce or forgive him so that my children can have a complete family?
