COLUMN. Goedele Lieken talks about the new kind of sex that many couples are testing. “All inhibitions vanish in a moment” | Exclusively for subscribers

“A friend of mine went on a trip alone,” writes Goedele Liekens. “Until he was in a relationship, it became: ‘Let’s do it all together, or not.'” That relationship ended. The sexologist therefore wants us to stop pleasing in love, something women are champions of, according to her. “So the relationship looks ‘perfect’, but you get lost.” The sexologist shares a short checklist that teaches you to transform that eternal pleasure into saying – and knowing – what you want. “Do you express your true wishes?”

October 5th