Can Cause Trauma, What Reasons People Do Ghosting in Relationships?

JAKARTA – Ghosting is an event when someone suddenly cuts off communication without giving any explanation. This condition can occur in romantic relationships or friendships, and often causes a sense of loss in the person left behind.

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This incident can be traumatic for the person who experiences it. Some people can be indifferent when they become victims of ghosting, but there are also those who feel very betrayed and have an impact on their psychological condition because they continue to think and question the reasons why they were abandoned.

Quoting Doctor Gea’s video from Alodokter entitled “This is the Reason Why Someone Do Ghosting and How to Overcome It”, Wednesday (8/9/2021), several reasons why people ghosting are explained, and the following is a review.

1. Feeling scared

Most ghosting perpetrators have a fear of the relationship they are in, either afraid of being disappointed or afraid of feeling pain when the relationship ends. Therefore, they decided to do ghosting to get rid of that fear.

2. Avoid conflict

Differences of opinion in a relationship are common when there is conflict. Especially if the relationship is very close emotionally. Not everyone is ready to face conflict in a relationship, and this is the reason why someone ghosts.

3. Avoiding fights

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