‘Being so hateful about Katja Schuurman: that’s just crazy’ | Columns & Opinion

Mainly women

“The comments on Twitter didn’t get very far in terms of content. It got a bit stuck on ‘I really don’t like that Katja’ to ‘Katja is a really annoying person’. Someone called her an immature, obnoxious talking baby girl. And yet another states that she immortalizes herself in the media. Who posts those comments? What do you think? Mainly women of course; men are more likely to say that despite her age, she is still quite tasty.”

The Gerdas

“Katja openly talks about her mental problems in Farm van Dorst, about the fact that she has borderline and ADHD. She drinks a drink, is a bit tipsy and then she also says that she has gained insights about her relationship through the use of magic mushrooms. All grist to the mills of the Gerdas in this society, of course. They have again tapped the blisters on the edifying fingers.”

parenting

”‘Katja behaves like a borderline teenager. Your kid wants magic mushrooms. Calls herself mother, said Babel. I’m really going for that. First; Katja is a mother, that’s why she can call herself that. The fact that you see her in a program on TV really says nothing about her quality as a parent. How she fleshes out that parenting is up to her and no one else. Nowhere is it written how to do it.”

Laughed so hard

“Second: Just because you do one doesn’t mean you screw up the other. I’ve also done mushrooms in the past. It didn’t give me any insight, it just made me nervous that the conifer hedge of the neighbors at the time kept growing and growing – I saw things that weren’t there. I also laughed so hard and for so long that it made my muscles sore the next day. I still remember that evening fondly.”

Risk

“I did it when I was already a mother, yes. Obviously not in front of the kids. It didn’t make me a worse parent in any way, I wouldn’t know in what way. That I was taking a risk with my health? Please take a look in the mirror. We all take risks all day long. One does that by getting on a motorcycle, another exposes itself to baking stress on a daily basis and another eats unhealthy.”

licentious life

“What strikes me is that it is mainly the mother who has to pay the price. We find it very funny that Douwe Bob has raised three children with three women in a few months. We also cover with the mantle of love that he recently attacked a bicycle courier. But the fact that Katja leads a somewhat licentious life causes irritation among the public and an extreme urge to post hateful comments. As a mother you better wait for the children at home with that cup of tea – we are as emancipated as a fish stick in that respect.”

Are we doing well

“On social media people feel sorry for Katja’s children, I read. But you know what’s really sad for those kids? For being so disdainful of their mother. Imagine reading as a child that your mother is “crazy” and a “borderline teenager” and “playing quartet with her personality disorders.” React so negatively en masse; that’s just crazy. And so it turns out that in 2022 it is better as a woman to color within the lines. Are we doing well.”

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