Various personal dilemmas and questions: Advice from Mourrison

What is kratom? What are its effects and is it a drug?

Hi Mourrison, when I was taking the subway to drama school, I saw a kratom machine in one of the concourses. I would like to know what it is. Friends say it’s dope. What are its effects? Adam

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My friend wants to adopt my boyfriend, what should I do?

Hi Mourrison, a friend of mine likes my boyfriend and would like to date him (she told me this before we were dating). Well, now she’s always making things up just to be with him. Maybe she wants to explain something in math, or she “accidentally” drops something when we meet, or she has a stomach ache and wants him to walk her home. It annoys me and I don’t know what to do.

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My boyfriend wants me to watch porn with him

Hi Mourrison, I’m too shy to tell anyone, so I’m trying to write it to you. I’ve been dating a guy for about half a year now. I like him, we even kissed. Lately, he keeps persuading me to watch some porn with him. But I don’t want to. I’m afraid to tell him so he doesn’t break up with me.

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One boy in the class keeps shouting strange words

Hi Mourrison, we have a boy in our class who keeps yelling such strange words in all classes. Don’t know what that means? Borek

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I got into two schools and can’t decide

Hi Mourrison, I need some advice from you. I am in the ninth grade and I got into two schools where I did admissions. For business and also for gym. I can’t decide at all. Will you help me? Thanks, Michal

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Mourrison, what are your problems? And how can we help?

Hi Mourrison, you always answer our problems here but you never tell us yours. And don’t say ours are important, or god forbid you don’t have any, that would be a lie. Everyone has problems. So the point of my letter is this: What are your problems? Can we help you with them? You can also pour your heart out here like the rest of us Yasuo 🙂

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One girl annoys me! Is it wrong that I don’t tolerate her?

Hi Mourrison, we have a girl in our class who is very fake. She still uses everyone and if someone doesn’t want to help her, she’s nasty to him. It annoys me terribly and I can’t entertain myself. Am I bad because I don’t tolerate her? Thanks for your reply, Vanessa.

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I like a girl who already has a boyfriend, what should I do?

Hi Mourrison, I don’t know what to do. I really like a girl from the next class and I would like to go out with her. But there is one catch, she already has a boyfriend. Please help me. Peter

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Sometimes I am a HE and sometimes a SHE, how do I tell others?

Hi Mourrisne, I recently admitted that I’m not quite a girl, even though I was born that way (so I’m sometimes he, she and it, it’s been about a year) and I have a new name. One of my friends already knows it, so she calls me by my new name, but how to explain it to others? I’m afraid that they might not accept me, even with one friend it was difficult and she didn’t believe me for a month. How do I tell them if I don’t want them to exclude me from the team? I’ve been struggling with this for months myself, so I’d be happy if you could help.

PS: the new name is Yasuo(on), or for the girl Yass Yass (13 years old)

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I would like to see my stepsisters

Hi Mourrison, when my dad didn’t know my mom, he had two daughters with another woman, I’ll call them Lucka and Kristýna. Mom had a daughter and a son with another man, I’ll call them Amálka and Max. Then they both divorced and got together and had me together. At first everyone had fun with everyone, but from the beginning it was clear that Lucka and Kristýna didn’t like my mom very much, because they said she “replaced theirs”. I understand that the separation of parents must be difficult, but the girls were already adults at that time , and they treated my mother badly, while she bought them presents and was very nice to them, and they were extremely ungrateful. Once when I was nine, I spent a few days with them, but it was not very pleasant, because whenever I maybe she did something wrong, so they said “you’re like your mom”, which I don’t mind, but you understand, they said it at the wrong time, and they just kept slandering her, and it made me uncomfortable, and I closed myself to them for about an hour toilet. Then my parents picked me up, and of course I messed everything up, and I haven’t seen my sisters since. Dad secretly writes with them, but mom must not find out, which I understand because she would probably be sorry, and as much as I don’t like dad hiding something from her, I understand that he wants contact with his daughters. Lucka already had a child when I was there with them, and now she has had a second child for quite some time, whom I have never seen, and Kristýna too. Well, now I logged into Instagram for the first time, and Lucka noticed it and wrote to me, “Anonymous, is that you?” and at that moment my heart was pounding and I didn’t know what to do. I can’t tell my mom, dad wasn’t home, so I wrote to Max. He advised me that I didn’t have to be afraid to write to her if I wanted to, and not to write if I didn’t want to, and that I didn’t have to report everything to mom. We wrote a few sentences, and she suggested that we could meet. After about four years. But I don’t know what I want. I don’t know. I often think of both sisters, but how they behaved… I want to be faithful to my mother, but at the same time I want to see the children whom I am an aunt and whom I have never seen in my life . I hate them for how much they have caused my father to worry and how they have hurt my mother, but at the same time they are my sisters and I don’t really know them, so I can’t really judge them. What should I do? I’m sorry for the terribly long letter, I hope I’m not adding to too much work.Thank you so much for your reply, 13 years old.

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