The qualities based on choosing a life partner differ from one person to another. Each person has some characteristics that he seeks without giving up on one of them, such as the presence of love, understanding, sharing, compatibility of thought, and many other qualities, so that life is easier and more beautiful while they are with us, but after the controversy surrounding the wedding of the artist Mahmoud Amer on… Social Media: Because of the age difference between spouses, we posed the question to a family relations consultant to find out: Does the age difference between spouses affect their relationship?
What is the appropriate age difference between spouses?
Azza Zayan, a social and family relations consultant, told Al-Youm Al-Sabea that the age difference is one of the important points that those about to get married and choose the other partner should think about, because it affects the form of the relationship later, like other important characteristics, since the age difference is less than Two years between them, they will be very stubborn and stick to the simplest things because their requirements are the same, and if one of them does it before the other, problems begin.
The most important thing is that the difference be normal, from two years to more than 10 years between them, because both parties are able to accept and understand the other party quickly, but if the age difference between them increases to a whole generation difference, which exceeds 20 years, it may lead to many problems. In a relationship, because they both have different requirements and interests that are controlled by the age factor. One of them is approaching life and wants to enjoy it, and the other wants comfort because he has had many of these experiences and enjoyed them.
She continued: The lack of age compatibility between both spouses leads to an incorrect path in building the new home, as each of them has a different language and style, and the opinions of the parents and family regarding the form of these relationships negatively affects them, and often the older partner tries to prevent these influences and please the younger partner. Searching for love and happy moments, he begins to compensate for all the influences with various types of compensation, such as taking many trips and buying many jewelry and clothes.
She emphasized that the foundations of successful relationships between couples are compatibility, not opposition or similarity. Each of them has a special character, but what is important is compatibility in the style of thinking and dialogue, even with their different goals.
The artist, Mahmoud Amer, responded to his critics on social media via Youm 7 TV, and said that his heart beat for her and that God compensated him for a lot with her, and that he felt with her that he was 25 years old, and he asked those who bullied him, “What did we do wrong for you to do all this?” He stressed that he did not care what was said about him and that he wished the best for all people.
