A woman abroad discovered that her boyfriend was chatting with friends and making fun of her appearance. (Image/reproduced from photoAC)
Couples should tolerate each other’s shortcomings when getting along, and should not use them as a topic of ridicule. A 20-year-old woman abroad said in tears that she found her boyfriend mocking her appearance while chatting with friends, which made her feel very sad, sparking a discussion.
The original PO is at《Reddit》It was mentioned in the discussion forum that her boyfriend is tall and handsome, and he is very serious about fitness, which is perfect for her. However, she has no confidence in her appearance and thinks she is average-looking. She knows in her heart that she will never look like her boyfriend. The girls on the street were so sexy that she was surprised when they showed interest in her.
The original PO pointed out that her boyfriend always told her: “You are very interesting and have the best personality.” She believed that this was the reason why she attracted him. The two loved each other and felt that they were very suitable. They also joked about getting married and having children. Although now It’s too early to tell, but my boyfriend did say that he wants to get married in a few years.
However, one day, the original PO discovered that her boyfriend and his friends were sending messages wildly, and he took a look out of curiosity. “His friend sent a photo of a girl, saying that she was interested in my boyfriend, and that she was really sexy.” The boyfriend admitted that he was excited, but when the other party asked if he wanted to provide his phone number, he firmly refused, “My girlfriend is much better than her!” Unexpectedly, this sentence was ridiculed, “Stop lying, your girlfriend is not cute at all!” In response, the boyfriend said, “Damn, you are all screwed up. She is cute sometimes,” with a frivolous tone.
The original PO felt very sad and didn’t know what to do. (Image/reproduced from photoAC)
The original PO described that her boyfriend’s friends kept asking him how he knew so many girls. When the boyfriend talked about her, he blurted out: “Well, she is ugly” and shared their sex life, indicating that this was the reason for his interest. One, this made her feel super ashamed, her hands began to shake, and she even cried with excitement.
The original PO was dissatisfied with her boyfriend using their sex life as a joke to discuss with friends. She felt that such behavior was very rude, but she hesitated whether she should mention it to her boyfriend. “I was like a child who was called you by some bullies on the playground. “It’s ugly.” I felt really bad and even admitted that I wanted to disappear.
As soon as this article came out, netizens left comments and suggested: “You can do better and stop belittling yourself”, “I don’t understand whether your boyfriend’s appearance is perfect, but his personality is 0”, “If he doesn’t cherish you , just get rid of him, and you will find a better man than him.” “You deserve someone who truly loves you and won’t disrespect you in front of your friends.”