I’m 26 years old, I’m thinking a lot about marriage and my boyfriend is 5 years older than me, he’s handsome, gallant, romantic and very rich. When I first fell in love, I only thought he was wealthy, but later I found out he was very rich.
Not only is he the son of a wealthy family, he is also very good at business and owns a growing company.
My friends, colleagues, and even relatives, everyone says I’m so lucky, that I’m smart, talented, and beautiful, that I deserve to have a lover like that… I think it’s fate. I don’t want money to decide to love rich people.
My boyfriend cares and takes care of me little by little, gently and sweetly, just like in a movie.
What I decided to love was my boyfriend’s handsome, romantic appearance.
Every time we meet, I am very impressed by the man’s education, understanding and elegant demeanor. My decision to love was not hasty. We had known each other for several months. When we were both in sync with everything, then I accepted the love.
Having a boyfriend like that, I’m very proud of myself. My boyfriend cares and takes care of me little by little, gently and sweetly, just like in a movie. In the morning, he picked me up for breakfast and took me to the company. In the afternoon, he picked me up and took me out to dinner…
I ignored the whispers and discussions somewhere: “Let’s see how much they love each other?”, “What a fool, falling in love with a handsome rich man, then they’ll just be playing around.” “, “Love is just that, but when getting married, people look for children of good family to be compatible”… I believe in my boyfriend’s feelings, before I didn’t care who he loved, what’s important is present with me.
Also starting to turn 30 years old, my boyfriend wants to get serious about the future. There were times when we talked about the future, but we both realized we needed more time to love and understand each other better, and enjoy the best time together. But then one fine day, my boyfriend proposed marriage, which surprised me.
In the midst of a beautiful and romantic scene, my boyfriend took out a beautiful bouquet of roses from the trunk of his car and gave it to me, along with a lovely engagement ring box. I was surprised, I still didn’t understand what was happening, I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. I trembled and wondered: “Is this true?”.
My boyfriend gently replied: “It’s true, will you be my wife?”.
Before I could answer yes, my boyfriend showed me a piece of paper with a pen and said, “Just read it, then sign it.” I was stunned, it was a paper confirming that I renounced all property, no different from a “marriage contract”, if I signed it and later accidentally divorced, I would be left empty-handed.
My boyfriend comforted me: “This is something my parents forced me to do, but I think it’s reasonable. In foreign countries, before getting married, people are very clear about their assets. Let’s just get married, you worry about what to do.” What about money?”
As soon as my boyfriend finished speaking, I immediately rejected the proposal and asked him to take me home. From that day until now 2 weeks have passed, I am bored and cry a lot, I avoid my boyfriend, no longer think about marriage and am thinking about breaking up.
My boyfriend and his parents are so calculating and disrespectful to me, should I accept it so I can live with the person I love and have the reputation of marrying a rich man? Or continue to refuse to propose and break up with him? Please give me advice!
