Jakarta, CNN Indonesia —
Sex can secretly show various aspects of the relationship with your partner. There are several danger signs that appear during sex. The danger sign shows that there is something wrong in your relationship with your partner.
Sex gives couples the opportunity to be closer and intimate with each other. Physical and emotional satisfaction will maintain a healthy relationship. However, certain conditions during sex need to be watched out for.
The following signs do not always have to be followed up with a breakup. You can discuss it with your partner.
1. Only focus on self -satisfaction
The selfish nature of the couple can be revealed in bed. For example, a partner who is more focused on personal pleasure, without ensuring your satisfaction.
“If you’ve told your partner about your sexual preference, but your partner is still concerned about his or her desires, instead of following your requests, that could indicate a problem,” says relationship coach Marisa T Cohen, quoting Bustle.
2. No eye contact
Avoiding eye contact can be an indication of a problem. Because eye contact shows trust.
Indeed, there are moments where sex is more enjoyable without eye contact. However, if there is a moment when your eyes can make contact, but you or your partner’s eyes are avoiding each other, then you should suspect that something emotional is going on.
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The reasons can be various. Starting from the him who associates sexuality with shame. Or, it could be related to fear or being unprepared.
However, if you feel your partner is building a distance, then it’s best to find out what’s going on.
3. Absence of kissing and hugging
Not everyone is good at or comfortable kissing. However, if your partner doesn’t want to kiss you, then it could be a sign of refusing to show his affection for you. Especially if the previous kissing activity became something that was usually done in bed.
You are also advised to hug longer after sex. This will foster an emotional bond and trust. If this habit ever existed and then disappeared, then you need to find out the cause.
“Prolonged touch releases oxytocin, known as the ‘love hormone’ and can increase bonding with your partner,” explains Cohen.
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