Michelle Bollen on Past Relationships and future Attractions
Following a playful comment on their podcast suggesting a romantic connection between them, Iris and michelle discussed Michelle’s past relationships and current attractions. The conversation stemmed from listener reactions to their use of the term “darling” with one another.
Iris expressed surprise,stating she perceived Michelle as not fitting the stereotype of a lesbian woman,going so far as to say she doesn’t believe Michelle is attracted to women. Michelle acknowledged having felt physical attraction to women in the past, but emphasized that her one significant emotional connection was with a woman named Jacqueline.
“It was different with Jacqueline,” Michelle explained. “I looked at her and it was genuine. before that, it was always just physical.” She clarified that she has not experienced that same depth of feeling with any other woman, describing her connection with Jacqueline as “love at first sight” and believing it unlikely to be repeated.
Michelle stated she currently doesn’t envision herself in a relationship with a woman, a sentiment Iris readily agreed with. Michelle jokingly suggested a shift in focus towards men, while also affirming she still finds women beautiful and physically attractive, but views those feelings as distinct from the potential for a romantic partnership.
The discussion followed Michelle’s recent ending of a polyamorous relationship with Jacqueline and koen, a period she has described as needing time for self-revelation. Further details on this period are available in a related video.