Slate’s “Prudie” Column Sees Surge in Interest Following Viral TikTok Trend
New York, NY – Slate’s advice column, “Dear Prudie,” is experiencing a notable increase in submissions related to a specific, high-risk sexual act following its popularization on TikTok, according to recent data gleaned from teh column’s backend and confirmed by Slate staff writer Rich Juzwiak. The trend, involving a practice often referred to as “ball play,” has sparked both curiosity and concern among readers, prompting a wave of questions about safety, boundaries, and potential complications.
The uptick in inquiries comes as the practice gains mainstream visibility through short-form video content, normalizing a previously niche activity. While discussions around kink and sexual exploration are not new to “Dear Prudie,” the sheer volume of recent submissions focused on this particular act signals a shift in cultural awareness and a corresponding need for guidance. Juzwiak noted the column received a question on January 25, 2021, from a reader navigating a partner’s “very sensitive kink,” which laid groundwork for the current surge. Slate’s coverage of related topics, such as roleplay and boundary negotiation, published June 2021, further demonstrates the ongoing conversation surrounding sexual exploration and consent.
“Prudie” readers are grappling with a range of issues, including how to initiate conversations about safety, establish clear limits, and address potential physical or emotional fallout. The column’s advice consistently emphasizes the importance of open dialog, enthusiastic consent, and prioritizing physical well-being. Slate is also promoting its newsletter to provide readers with ongoing access to advice from “Prudie” and other columnists.
