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How Sophie longed to be a mother – but nearly died twice: New biography reveals Duchess’s traumatic pregnancy experiences, and the VERY unlikely TV show the Queen watched with her children

Royal Family’s “Rock”: **Sophie**’s Journey of Resilience

From personal struggles to public service, Duchess of Edinburgh’s path inspires.

Before becoming a dedicated working royal, the Duchess of Edinburgh, **Sophie**, faced significant personal hurdles, including struggles with fertility and life-threatening pregnancy complications. Her experiences shaped her commitment to supporting various causes.

Early Romance and Royal Wedding Plans

In January 1999, **Prince Edward** and **Sophie Rhys-Jones** announced their engagement at St. James’s Palace. The couple aimed for an informal wedding, opting for an evening ceremony without traditional hats or military attire.

Amidst royal scandals, the royal wedding news provided a national boost. All eyes focused on the arrangements at St. George’s Chapel, Windsor Castle.

Secret Visits and Biological Clock

While planning the wedding, **Sophie** discreetly visited **Zita West**, a Harley Street clinic run by the baby whisperer. Finding the right moment to marry amid years of family upheaval, **Sophie** was 34 when she walked down the aisle.

**Ms. West** believed general well-being enhanced a woman’s prospects of getting pregnant and had previously advised **Kate Winslet**, **Cate Blanchett**, **Ulrika Jonsson**, and **Diana**.

Ectopic Pregnancy and Emergency Air Ambulance

In late 2001, **Sophie** was delighted to be expecting a baby. However, a month before her 37th birthday, she experienced severe stomach pains.

**Prince Edward** called **Dr. Richard Thompson**, head of the Queen’s medical staff, who suspected an ectopic pregnancy. An air ambulance transported **Sophie** to King Edward VII’s Hospital for immediate surgery.

The dramatic rescue underscored the critical role of emergency medical services. For example, in the UK, air ambulances undertake approximately 40,000 missions each year (Air Ambulances UK).

The full paramedic team in the helicopter meant no room for **Edward**, so he drove to London, stopping off at Buckingham Palace to tell the **Queen** and **Prince Philip** what was happening.

Outside the hospital **Edward** haltingly told the media: “It’s obviously a very traumatic time and my wife has… it’s quite the most painful thing anyone can undergo. It’s a pretty traumatic experience.”

While **Sophie** recovered, a statement was issued on her behalf: “I am obviously very sad but it was just not meant to be. But there will be other chances. The nurses have been unbelievably fantastic.”

Turning Point: From Support to Campaigning

This difficult episode marked a turning point for **Sophie**, transforming her into a dedicated campaigner. Initially, she intended to support **Edward** rather than pursue her own charitable endeavors.

However, she realized she could offer more than just token support to causes that aided her, particularly the Air Ambulance Service.

**Sophie**, Duchess of Edinburgh views a ‘living wall’ garden display as she visits the RHS Hampton Court Garden Festival at Hampton Court Palace, in June 2025

Golden Jubilee and IVF Treatment

After the sad early months of 2002, celebrations began in June for the Queen’s Golden Jubilee. **Sophie** joined other royals on the Buckingham Palace balcony to acknowledge the crowds.

Privately, she still desired to start a family. Under the supervision of **Sir Marcus Setchell**, the royal gynaecologist, she began IVF treatment.

After two unsuccessful attempts, the third IVF treatment was successful, and the Palace announced the good news in August 2003.

Premature Birth of Lady Louise

In November, just weeks before her due date, **Sophie** experienced severe stomach pains and was rushed to Frimley Park Hospital for an emergency caesarean. She was showing signs of acute placental abruption.

**Lady Louise** was born weighing just 4lb 9oz and was taken to a specialist baby unit. **Sophie** required a transfusion of nine pints of blood.

**Edward**, who was in Mauritius, returned to London and was shaken to discover his baby daughter was in a specialist unit and not with her mother.

After dashing to **Sophie**’s bedside, he spoke to the Press outside the hospital: “First of all, I am rather shocked and delighted at the news, obviously very sorry that I was not able to be part of it.

He was excused from the royal schedule for a week as he shuttled the 35 miles between mother and baby.

After a few days, doctors were happy for baby **Louise** to travel back to Frimley Park Hospital to be reunited with **Sophie**, whose recovery was progressing slowly.

The **Queen** broke protocol and visited **Sophie** and her latest grandchild at the hospital.

Health Concerns for Lady Louise

Three months later, **Louise** was diagnosed with esotropia, a form of strabismus. **Sophie** delayed treatment, and **Louise** eventually had two operations to correct the eye.

One of the key motivations for **Sophie** has been using personal experience to guide her interest as a member of the Royal Family.

How Sophie longed to be a mother – but nearly died twice: New biography reveals Duchess’s traumatic pregnancy experiences, and the VERY unlikely TV show the Queen watched with her children
**Lady Louise Windsor** drives a carriage in the Pol Roger Meet of the British Driving Society at the Royal Windsor Horse Show in Windsor Castle on May 14, 2023

Advocacy for Prevention of Blindness

Her experience with **Lady Louise** has made her a global ambassador for the International Agency for the Prevention of Blindness (IAPB).

In 2014, she opened a new neonatal ward at Frimley Park Hospital and broke down in tears as she met and thanked the midwives who had helped to save her life.

Unexpected Second Pregnancy

Just as **Louise** was about to start primary school, **Sophie** found she was pregnant again. **James** was born by planned Caesarean at Frimley Park.

**Louise** did not realize her grandmother was the **Queen** until someone told her on her first day of pre-school.

Close Relationship with the Queen

The **Queen** was intensely sympathetic to **Sophie**’s struggles to have children, and they became close over the years.

**Sophie** learned to embrace the pursuits the **Queen** and **Prince Philip** enjoyed and would pop round to Windsor Castle to watch TV with her mother-in-law.

The **Queen** found **Sophie** a comforting and calm presence.

**Sophie** and **Edward** tried to give their children as normal an upbringing as possible and her royal workload was steadily increasing. **Sophie** was growing in confidence – and ready to step in when needed most.

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