Dutch television personality Els,known for her appearance on B&B Vol Liefde (B&B Full of Love),recently shared a poignant reflection on navigating grief and loneliness during the holiday season. A simple walk through her neighborhood, observing the warmth of family gatherings, unexpectedly triggered a wave of emotion.

“And then all at once I have to swallow something away… the feeling of ‘being alone’, on this Friday evening.”

A Time of Remembrance

Els explained that the past few weeks have been particularly challenging, coinciding with the anniversaries of both her mother’s and husband’s deaths. She described the period as “a bit of a rollercoaster in terms of emotions.” This emotional turbulence is compounded by the visual reminders of togetherness that are prevalent during the holidays.

From Extremes to Everyday Life

The contrast between her personal grief and public life was starkly illustrated by her attendance at a lavish party earlier in the week. “Two extremes,” she noted, adding with a touch of realism, “That’s life.”

Unexpected Waves of Grief

Despite maintaining a generally positive outlook, Els acknowledges that emotions can surface unexpectedly during this time of year. She found that observing scenes of domestic bliss – decorated Christmas trees and lit candles – could be particularly confronting. Though, she also expressed gratitude for the support system she still has in her life, stating, “I am not alone, I know it.”

in a heartfelt moment of vulnerability, Els recounted a recent experience: “I just started singing a song to myself and with an old brat out of my pocket, I wiped away a tear.”

Rising Star

Els’s participation in B&B Vol Liefde appears to have significantly boosted her television career,leading to a steady stream of new opportunities and roles.

The holidays can be a complex time for many, filled with both joy and sorrow. Els’s openness about her experiences serves as a powerful reminder that it’s okay to acknowledge and process difficult emotions.

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