The “Mother Instinct” is a Myth, Science Says: It’s About Care, Not Gender
Recent research challenges the long-held belief in a biologically persistent “mother instinct,” suggesting instead that nurturing behavior stems from attachment and a conscious decision to provide care – qualities not exclusive to women.
The concept of “mother instinct” frequently enough surfaces in conversations about parenting, implying an innate, gender-specific ability to nurture. Though, a growing body of evidence suggests this is a misconception. Experts argue that focusing on “instinct” can reinforce conventional gender roles and overlook the capacity for caregiving in all parents.
“There are infinite many types of how peopel can build really strong ties to individuals with whom they are not closely related,” anthropologist Kristen Hawkes of the “National Geographic” explained, pointing to examples like adoption where strong bonds form regardless of biological connection.
The idea that care is tied to gender is unsupported by science, according to researchers Rösler and Höllrigl Tchaikner. They, and others, propose reframing the discussion around “careful” behavior – a deliberate and active choice to take responsibility and foster closeness with a child. This emphasizes “wanting” to care, rather than an inherent “ability” based on gender.
This shift in viewpoint has implications for how society views parental leave and the division of childcare responsibilities. Challenging the notion that fathers are less capable in the early stages of parenting can encourage greater involvement and strengthen their bond with their children.
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