Finding Solace: Maltese grief Groups offer Support for Parents of ‘Star Children‘
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Published: November 2, 2023
Breaking the Taboo of Child Loss
In Malta, as in many societies, the death of a child remains a deeply sensitive and often unspoken tragedy. Grief groups are emerging as vital spaces for parents navigating this unimaginable loss, offering a haven to share experiences and find understanding. “We are born, we live, we die,” explains verena, a facilitator with a local support network. “The natural order accepts death at various ages – 30, 40, 70, 90 – but a child’s death disrupts that worldview, leaving many feeling helpless. Increased education and open conversation are crucial.”
The impact of a child’s passing extends far beyond the immediate parents, profoundly affecting grandparents and siblings as well. These frequently enough-overlooked family members also require support and acknowledgement of their grief.
The Importance of Validating Grief, at Every Stage
Heike, another grief support specialist in Malta, emphasizes the critical need for recognizing the profound loss experienced, irrespective of the gestation stage or age of the child. “There’s a notable lack of recognition that this is a devastating loss,” she states. “Parents who loose a child early in pregnancy frequently encounter insensitive comments such as ‘Nature decided,’ ‘It was probably for the best,’ ‘It happens all the time, it wasn’t a child yet,’ or ‘You’re young, you can have other children.'”
Even well-intentioned individuals can struggle to support grieving parents effectively. Heike points out that broad offers of help, like “Let me no if you need anything,” often fall short. Those affected might potentially be overwhelmed and unable to articulate their needs.
Practical Support: Beyond Words
Rather of open-ended offers, Heike suggests tangible acts of service. “Practical help is invaluable. Offering to take a load of laundry, preparing a meal, or simply providing a quiet presence can make a significant difference. These everyday gestures alleviate burdens and demonstrate genuine care.”
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