Man, 27, Declares Clearing Father’s ₹55 Lakh Debt His “Biggest Flex” and Life’s Purpose
New Delhi – September 7, 2025 – A 27-year-old man has captured the attention of the internet after sharing his story of shouldering his family’s financial burden and clearing ₹55 lakh of his father’s debt.Posting to the Reddit forum r/Indianflex, the man detailed how he took on the duty of supporting his parents and sister starting in his second year of college while studying part-time.
“My father had a huge debt of 65 lakhs, and so far, I’ve cleared 55 lakhs. Right now, there are 10-15 lakhs more remaining, and I am persistent to clear it quickly,” he wrote in the now-viral post.
He admitted the journey was emotionally taxing.”At some point, I used to feel frustrated and sad that all my money was going into paying off debts.I couldn’t enjoy life, I couldn’t save or spend on things I wanted, and it sometimes felt like I was drowning,” he shared.
Though,he ultimately found meaning in his sacrifice. “Perhaps this is my purpose – to see my parents and sister with less burden on their shoulders, to give them peace of mind, to carry the weight of responsibility with pride, to create a life where family doesn’t have to worry about debts,” he explained. He noted that each payment brought him “happiness and fulfillment,” referencing lyrics from the artist Divine: “Agar real g bana toh ghar ko sambhal bro” – roughly translated as “If you’ve become a real man, take care of your home, brother.”
The man concluded by stating, “Maybe purpose isn’t always about chasing dreams or personal glory. Maybe it’s about doing the hard,unglamorous work that makes life better for the people you love.”
The post has garnered significant attention on Reddit,with users praising his dedication and resilience.One user commented, “More power to you, brother,” while another stated, “Your purpose is whatever you make of it. Coping with your situation and burden is admirable.” Another user remarked, “This is a real flex.”
the story resonates with broader themes of familial responsibility and finding purpose beyond individual ambition, prompting reflection on the often-unseen struggles faced by manny. The original Reddit post can be found