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Young woman cries a lot. Married for 8 years. Husband has debt to pay every month. I just found out I was the cause.

It has become a hot topic in China’s social networking world. The case of women in Jiangxi Province Recorded a clip while driving and crying a lot. She vented her deep regret. After being married to my husband for 8 years, I recently realized that the debt my husband had to pay every month was caused by myself.

She said that She and her husband have been married for 8 years. During this time, she has seen her husband share a large amount of money received from his salary. to pay off debt every month And not just the husband. but also includes her husband’s parents. No matter how much money they saved, they put it all towards debt. It made her wonder why her husband’s family had so much debt. Because she saw that they were all people who did not play around or spend lavishly. So where does that debt come from?

Her own husband was under a lot of pressure. and never said a word to her For fear of affecting both families, however, this time she insisted on knowing about her husband’s family debt. In the end, he had to open his mouth and tell the truth. And the whole thing shocked her almost to the point of being rock-hard.

It appears that this story started with the couple’s wedding. to prepare for the wedding Her parents received a dowry of about 300,000 yuan (approximately 1.5 million baht). At the same time, she thought that 300,000 did not look good at all, but 680,000 seemed more auspicious and prosperous. So she asked for a dowry in that amount. Because she only thought that her parents probably already had a dowry for her and her husband. Because she knows that her parents have always loved her.

But what she didn’t expect was that She overestimates the love her parents have for her and her husband’s family. Meanwhile, the father-in-law didn’t have a lot of money either. But because I know that both children really love each other. So he wanted to bless the couple. So he agreed unconditionally to the bride’s family. and had to borrow 680,000 yuan (about 3.5 million baht) from relatives and friends That’s why after 8 years of marriage, my husband and his family are still in debt.

And what made her want to cry even more was that Her parents did not return even a single penny of the dowry money back to the newlyweds, even though she had always understood that it was only half the price. And if that were the case, my husband’s family wouldn’t have to live in hardship for so long. She couldn’t understand why her parents didn’t do that. Her parents originally asked for a bride price like every other family, about 300,000 yuan, but they received 680,000 yuan without giving it back to their daughter or son-in-law. How is it different from selling your daughter?!

However, she concluded by saying: She couldn’t go home and ask her parents. Because when the question arises, there will definitely be conflict between her and her parents. But if I don’t ask, I don’t know how to confront my parents. Pretend nothing happened? Could it be that they don’t care that their daughter and husband live well?
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As soon as the clip was published on social networks. The story of this woman and the issue of “bride price” according to Chinese wedding traditions. It received a lot of attention and debate. Some netizens expressed their opinion that

“Your husband’s family is very nice. Please respect and treat them well.”

“680,000 yuan is not a small amount of money, but my parents-in-law agreed unconditionally. Then they secretly borrowed money to take care of their children. After 8 years of repaying the debt, they didn’t say a word. Because I don’t want you to be pressured.”

“If your parents give you back half of your dowry, The story probably wouldn’t have ended this sadly.”

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2023-10-05 13:35:32