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Men’s Dilemma 39 Three irreversible states of life

There are three irreversible states of life: getting sick, buying a house, getting married and having children. These three choices are equivalent to negative equity for people who are pursuing a career.

▋1. Sick

Almost everyone knows this. Being sick leaves you with no energy to do things in your life well. I was also infected with the virus during the epidemic before, and I couldn’t do all the important things in my life for two whole weeks.

If the virus is like this, then the cancer will become more serious, which means that your healthy cells will gradually be corroded, and at that time you will have no time to think about your own life.

Viruses and cancer are encountered less frequently. Instead, more people encounter chronic illness, mostly due to the impact of dietary habits.

An unhealthy diet and insufficient micronutrients can make your head dizzy and unable to think, leading to an unwillingness to study and making it easy to make wrong decisions, which in turn makes life worse.

Due to the high estrogen caused by obesity, the higher the body fat, the harder it is to lose weight, and the less motivated you are to change your current life. Obesity will extend to more symptoms such as diabetes, high blood pressure, cataracts, cardiovascular diseases, etc.

When there is no execution ability to change life for a long time, there is no sense of satisfaction and achievement in life, which in turn affects mental health, such as increased frequency of depression and sense of meaninglessness.

If you are sick, forget it, but if it is serious enough that you need to stay in bed, it will drag down your family and friends around you. It is not just that you just die, but more often you want to die but you can’t die, so you can only lie in bed and be tortured by all kinds of things. The illness lasted for decades.

Relatives and friends can only devote time, energy, and money to clean up the mess you could have prevented yourself.

▋2. Buy a house

When I was in my early thirties, friends began to take out loans to buy houses. This article only deals with the situation of buying houses in Taiwan.

The paradoxical thing is that they should obviously be happier than me. After all, each of them has an annual salary of at least 600,000 yuan, and this does not include the year-end bonus.

As a result, they recently discussed with me that they also want to do self-media, increase their outside income, and even have the opportunity to start a business to make more money.

Because buying a house requires a long-term loan, which means that your entire life’s cash flow is very tight. Once you get this month’s salary and pay the mortgage and living expenses, you will almost have no money for your own life, entertainment and study.

So when your salary and abilities at work cannot grow, and the work content requires long-term overtime, it means that your life is locked up and you are unhappy, and humans cannot be like machines and engage in unfulfilling things for decades. .

I think when they are happy, either their salary increases or they wait until decades later when the cash flow is continuous and the mortgage is paid off. The former needs to use their time more efficiently, and the latter needs blessings.

▋3. Get married and have children

Every man has different motives for having children. Some hope to achieve success in life, while others hope to have a companion in the future.

But children are just like a house. It will be safer to decide after you have enough resources to raise a child.

Although I have met several e-commerce bosses who are running their businesses while having wives and children, it seems that either their body shape has changed and their health has been lost, or they have no time to pick up girls, so they can only protect their wives from having another problem. Just get things done and deal with them.

The remaining bosses are indeed very powerful, but the chances are really slim.

It depends on how each man weighs it. I can’t accept life without a woman. It’s too uncomfortable.

Just dealing with the three-piece package of children’s education, growth, and companionship is tiring enough. If you get married, you may also have to pay a mortgage. If you live at home, you will have to deal with life issues between your family and your wife, which is really busy for you.

▋Conclusion

You will find that the life path that the school taught students at that time was equivalent to draining a person’s financial resources and sending it back to the government.

You are like a gear that is put into a company to continuously generate financial resources. The money is finally paid back to hospitals, housing taxes, schools, and so on.

When you are very stressed, you have to start smoking, drinking, eating sugar, and caffeine. Finally, when you get sick, you pay the money to the hospital and send it back to the government.

Even if you plan to quit these drugs, supermarkets and drink shops everywhere will remind you at any time.

It is best to confirm that your career and income have passed a certain threshold and are ready to take off before thinking about the safety of asset allocation.

2024-01-18 15:44:35

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