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Serbella Tejeda Lama: “Love is Not a Prison” – A ‌Call for self-Respect in​ Relationships

Dominican-Puerto ⁣Rican singer Serbella tejeda Lama is speaking out about the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships and prioritizing self-love, asserting ‍that love is not a prison. Her insights ⁤come as ‍discussions around healthy relationship dynamics and the prevalence of narcissistic behaviors gain prominence.lama’s ⁣viewpoint, rooted in observation and a ​commitment to personal well-being, offers a timely message for anyone navigating the complexities of modern romance.

Lama emphasizes the crucial role‌ of paying attention to ⁢behavioral patterns. She ⁣explains that understanding a person’s mood swings ⁢and quirks is vital, stating, I understand that with a person’s mood changes, psychologically you already get to‍ know someone and you know their quirks.You understand​ that it can be a​ bomb that can explode ⁤later. While she hasn’t personally experienced abusive dynamics, she recognizes the potential for harm and ⁤advocates for proactive awareness.

Recognizing Unhealthy Patterns

Central to ‌Lama’s philosophy is the rejection of possessiveness and ‍control ​within a relationship.⁣ She firmly believes that ‍ Love is ‌stunning, it is not being with a person with signs of ⁣narcissism, for example, with that personality of wanting to possess the other person. She cautions against staying in relationships driven by fear of loneliness, arguing that one’s own⁣ well-being should always take ‌precedence.

Did You Know?⁤ Self-esteem is a critical component of healthy relationships, according to ⁤Lama, and prioritizing ‌personal growth is essential.

Lama passionately advocates for self-care and independence. It is vital that the person loves themselves more and dedicates more time to themselves. ⁢That they are​ not afraid of being⁣ alone. Being alone is marvelous, finding⁢ yourself, pampering yourself, loving yourself, she explains. She stresses⁤ the importance of​ building self-esteem⁤ as a foundation for healthy connections.

From⁤ Lyrical Theater to Tropical Sounds

Beyond‌ her relationship insights, Lama is actively pursuing her musical⁣ career, currently ⁢promoting her single “Más.” Her passion for singing dates back to childhood, though her father initially encouraged a ​different professional path. She pursued musical education at the University of ⁢Puerto Rico,⁤ immersing herself in ⁢lyrical theater, opera, zarzuelas, and musicals.

In the 1990s, Lama was a member of the merengue group “Las ⁣Bombones,” recording merengue versions of classics under the production of Freddy‍ Méndez, known​ for his work‍ with artists like Milly Quezada. Though, she recognized it wasn’t the right ⁣time for her to fully launch her career, learning the‌ value of‌ patience. I did two songs with‌ him, but I understood that it was not the time. ‍There‍ I began to​ develop a little ⁢patience, which in this entire process ⁣of my life has been key.⁣ I have to wait for the signs, she reflects.

Currently, Lama is‍ collaborating with producers Josean Cruz, Moisés Sánchez, and Raniero⁣ Palm. Her collaboration ⁤with⁣ Moisés Sánchez resulted in the ‍release of “Rendida,” the first single from her upcoming album. The album will‌ feature⁤ a diverse range of genres,⁢ including bachata, merengue, salsa, and ballads, with seven songs recorded to​ date.

Pro ‍Tip: ‍​ Prioritizing self-awareness‍ and setting ‌healthy boundaries are crucial steps in building fulfilling relationships.

Honoring‍ heritage

Lama ⁢proudly displays her Palestinian heritage ⁣with a tattoo on her forearm, visible‌ in the‍ music video for “Rendida.” The name “Serbella” ‍itself is of Arabic origin, ​honoring her ⁣mother. Her Dominican roots also heavily influence her musical​ repertoire. ‌ While ⁣she initially envisioned​ herself as ⁢a pop-rock balladeer, she’s‍ embraced her passion for tropical genres, creating ⁣a unique bachata sound that reflects her identity.

I have never denied ⁣my roots. I have never stopped feeling them and yes, ‍I have wanted to flirt with the genre for a ‌long time ⁢and ‍in itself, my musical proposal is a bachata with meaning, a bachata that⁤ is a little different,⁢ with the essence ⁢of Serbella.

What ⁤steps do you take to prioritize self-love ‌in yoru own life? How can we better support artists who are blending conventional and contemporary sounds?

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