Ray J Pleads for Reconciliation With Princess Love and Refuses Divorce
Ray J, the singer and reality television star, has publicly declared his refusal to finalize a divorce from his wife, Princess Love, marking their 10-year anniversary with a plea for reconciliation. The move follows a four-year cycle of legal filings and public separation attempts between the couple, who married in 2016.
A Decade of Public Union and Legal Instability
The relationship between Ray J and Princess Love has remained a subject of intense public scrutiny since they first met in 2013. Their marriage, which gained significant visibility through the reality series Love & Hip Hop: Hollywood, has been defined by a repetitive pattern of legal separation filings. According to public records and prior reports, the couple has initiated four separate divorce proceedings since May 2020. Despite these filings, the pair has frequently reconciled before the courts could finalize the dissolution of the marriage.

The most recent legal shift occurred in 2024, when Princess Love stated that the couple had reached the realization that their paths had diverged. At that time, the separation was framed as a mutual commitment to co-parenting their two children. However, Ray J’s social media post on Wednesday directly challenged the finality of that legal status. He explicitly stated, “I told you I don’t wanna get a divorce! We will get it right.”
The Legal and Personal Complexity of Repeated Filings
External Pressures and Public Conduct
The couple’s history is marked by incidents that have extended beyond personal disagreements into the legal sphere. In 2025, Ray J faced legal repercussions following an incident involving the alleged brandishing of a firearm during a livestream.
The Path Forward: Reconciliation or Finalization
As of Thursday, Princess Love has not publicly responded to the anniversary tribute or the request to halt the ongoing divorce proceedings.
The situation remains fluid. While Ray J has expressed a desire to maintain the family unit, the legal proceedings remain active until a formal withdrawal or a court-ordered dismissal is filed.