Peter Heesters on Friendship, Health & Letting Go of Ambition
Peter Gillis and Wendy van Hout have ended their relationship, with Van Hout removing all photos of Gillis from her Instagram account, according to reports surfacing this week.
The split follows a period of increasing financial strain for Van Hout, who has spoken publicly about the difficulties she faces despite being linked to the wealthy Gillis. She told Shownieuws she is “fed up” with constant negativity and bullying, particularly surrounding her music career. “I’m sick of it,” she stated, adding that she feels constantly “attacked and bullied” online.
While Van Hout declined to comment directly on the status of her relationship with Gillis, she revealed she is experiencing significant financial hardship. Her music is not generating substantial income, and she is involved in multiple legal disputes concerning youth care, custody, and alimony, resulting in considerable legal fees. “It costs me a fortune,” she emphasized, rejecting the perception that she is financially secure due to her association with a “rich man.”
Yvonne Coldeweijer has weighed in on the situation, suggesting that Gillis is not providing financial support to Van Hout. Coldeweijer reportedly indicated Van Hout’s implied question, “If you don’t pay for me, what am I doing here?” and added that Gillis needs to understand “what the deal with this woman exactly entails. If you seek on top, you have to pay, Petertje.”
The breakup appears to be a recent development, as Van Hout had previously been a vocal defender of Gillis, particularly during times of criticism. Sources indicate a shift from staunch support to a complete removal of their shared online presence.
Gillis recently shared his perspective on relationships in an interview with Margriet magazine, discussing a previous relationship. He described a “special and deep connection” with a former partner but acknowledged a lack of compatibility in everyday life. He described the end of that relationship as “regrettable, but better.” Gillis stated that he still maintains contact with the woman, finding solace in her voice. “When I’m feeling down, or just when I feel like it, I call her,” he said. “Hearing her voice relaxes my whole body.”
Gillis has as well been focusing on his health in recent years, acknowledging that his metabolism functions differently than normal. He described it as a condition that requires management, a shift from his upbringing which emphasized hard work and resilience. “It took a few years,” he said, “But if my body now says stop, I stop.”
His professional ambitions have also evolved. Gillis stated he is content with fulfilling and adequately compensated work, no longer striving to be “the best in the world.” He continues to harbor aspirations of growing as a cabaret performer, but acknowledges he would not be disheartened if he never performs at Carré theatre. He previously performed his own show, Eddie Voor Het Leven, a tribute to his role as Eddie in the comedy series Vrienden voor het Leven.