## The Unseen Role of the Carer: A Deep Dive
The role of a carer, often unseen and undervalued, is powerfully highlighted in the Disney+ show *Dying for Sex*, specifically through the character of Nikki, portrayed by Jenny Slate [[1]].The show realistically depicts the sacrifices a carer makes – losing jobs, relationships, housing, and even their own mental wellbeing – a reality often glossed over in popular culture.
This portrayal resonates deeply with those experiencing similar situations. The author of the piece, Natasha, shares her own experience becoming a full-time carer for her teenage son after his cancer diagnosis in 2022. She describes a complete loss of her former identity, feeling as though she is “no longer” herself due to the overwhelming physical and mental toll
