Inspiring personality, “influencere” Indra Salceviča often receives questions related to bodily positive thinking and self-confidence. Indra expresses her thoughts about people who claim that they have low self-esteem!
In the introduction to the reflection, the “influencer” declares that he is neither a therapist, nor a psychologist, nor a self-proclaimed life coach.
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From time to time I receive various questions in my letterbox related to bodily positive thinking, self-confidence, etc. I decided to post some of the most frequently asked questions here. But before you read on, you realize that I am neither a therapist, nor a psychologist, nor a self-proclaimed life coach with a mystical transformation program. I am a person who has simply read various books in order to find answers to questions that interest me and to search the mind. What I mean is just my thoughts, and you may disagree. One of the most frequently asked questions is “I have low self-esteem. How to fall in love with yourself? ” So here’s my observation about people who say “I have low self-esteem.” Most of them do not have low self-esteem at all. On the contrary, they are all right with self-assessment, because their biggest problem is the lack of recognition. They crave attention, sometimes they even have a fanatical desire to please and be the best and to be seen. And it manifests itself in all areas. Also, in a family, often people living in the same household have different languages of love, and their mismatch raises thoughts, why is it not the way it should be? But “it should happen” is just yours, as it should happen. These are your thoughts and expectations. Others think very differently and in fact such people simply have to learn to accept the thoughts and actions of others as things unrelated to them. In my opinion, sometimes it’s not even a matter of self-esteem, but of my ego. How big an ego you are and how much ego you need to satisfy. And if you do not get your satisfaction, then this seemingly low feeling of self-esteem begins, which is not self-esteem at all, but a desire for recognition. Why do I feel that way? Because those people who really have problems with self-esteem don’t talk about it. That is my thoughts. And to the answer, how to raise self-esteem, I would say study, read books or visit a real therapist, as they would say @dzemasudraba – in courses, it can not be learned. # reflections # low self-esteem #blogger #englishblogger #plussize #lategram #responsible
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Indra has read various books to find answers to her questions.
Most often, a well-known person receives letters asking her for advice on raising their self-confidence!
“Most people do not have low self-esteem at all. On the contrary, everything is fine with self-assessment, but their biggest problem is the lack of recognition, ”says Indra.
Such people crave attention, sometimes they even have a fanatical desire to please, to be the best, to be visible. It manifests itself in all areas.
“There are often different languages of love in the family, too, and their mismatch makes you wonder why it doesn’t happen the way it should. But “it should happen” is just yours, as it “should”, Indra says.
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Indra reminds that all this is just your thoughts and wishes, others think completely differently.
Such people must learn to accept the thoughts and actions of others as things unrelated to them.
“Influencer” is sure that it is not even a matter of self-esteem, but of selfishness – how great a selfish person are you? How much of the ego needs to be satisfied!
If you don’t get your satisfaction, then this seemingly low feeling of self-esteem also begins, which is not self-esteem at all, but a desire for recognition, ”Indra states.
The inspiring person believes that people who really have problems with self-esteem do not talk about it.
Indra’s advice in raising your self-esteem – study, read books or visit a real therapist!
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