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Eternal love! Hiromi’s widower says he received a visit from the actress’s soul

They say that time heals everything, even the deepest wounds; however, there are absences that are never overcome, you only learn to live with them. This is the case of the entrepreneur Fernando Santana, widower Of the singer Hiromi Hayakawa (rip), who a little over three years after losing his wife and is waiting, due to complications during childbirth, she has finally found inner peace. The singer also opened his heart to us and this he told us:-

-Fernando, you turned 37, how are you?

“So is. I’m good, thank you for asking”.

-I imagine that like the vast majority, the pandemic has affected you …

“Sure, this situation affected me like everyone else. I have businesses dedicated to the children’s area, but since there are no parties, they are closed, and on the artistic side, I was going to start with a tribute to launch myself as a salsa singer and make a musical group, but those plans will have to wait ”.

-How have you managed to survive all this time?

“Looking for him. I’ve always been a worker, I don’t stand still, I look for him on the A side, the B side … always adapting, as millions of people have done since this started ”.

-Fernando, more than three years have passed since the death of Hiromi and your daughter, how are you emotionally? How have you worked your grief?

“I am getting ahead day by day, one step at a time. The truth is, having family and friends close helped me understand the departure of Hiromi and my daughter Julieta ”.

-Her support gave you peace and comfort …

“I began to feel comfort when I assimilated that the death of Hiromi and my daughter, as painful as it may have been, is part of life; I said to myself: ‘Well, one day I’m going to go there too, I’m going to get to where they are.’

-After all that pain that you lived, you entered a stage of acceptance …

“So is. In the meantime, what I do is honor his memories, celebrate the life I had with Hiromi and move on for me, my family and hers. “

-How long were you together?

“Our relationship was very fast, it was a year and a half in total, but it was everything for me.”

-What happened to you is something that the pandemic has taught us: that at any moment we can leave this world

“Definitely. The pandemic has taught us that we have to value the people around us, to enjoy them day by day, because as you mentioned well, in the blink of an eye, the person you least imagine leaves and when you least expect it ”.

-Did you go to therapy?

“Yes, because I had never experienced losing someone so close, like my wife and daughter. I had to take therapy because I was very happy with Hiromi, and when she and my daughter passed away I needed an escape to dump all the anger that I felt after their departure, until I finally reached a stage of gratitude. I appreciated the time I spent with her, what we lived through and what she taught me ”.

-What did Hiromi teach you?

“He taught me to always give people a smile, to treat all people with a unique and natural love, to help whoever is in front of me as much as possible.”

-Last October she would have turned 38, how did you remember her?

“Yes, October 19 was his birthday. I have photographs of Hiromi and my daughter in my house, but I don’t need to remember them because they live in me, I keep them in mind every day ”.

Have you dreamed of them, have you received a message, proof of their presence?

“Since they left this world I have dreamed of Hiromi about four times, very few actually, but the last dream was very special. In that dream Hiromi appeared dressed all in white with long black hair; He was coming closer to me and the more he did, I realized that his eyes were watery. When he was next to me, he said: ‘How is it that you want to die?’, And when he asked me that, at that moment I woke up and yelled ‘No!’ “

Hiromi passed away in 2017.

– Was it during a stage of depression of yours?

“Yes, I had that dream during a difficult stage in which I did not want to live. However, more than a dream it felt like a visit. It felt like she was there with me. “

-Did you think he was coming for you?

“Yes, I said, ‘He came for me, let’s go for a ride!'”

– Did you feel like dying?

“Yes, of course, and if it had happened I would have said: ‘I’m very happy with them.’

-Recently, the actress Fernanda Castillo was about to die after her delivery, she was cared for and survived, when the Hiromi thing happened it was said that there was negligence, do you think there was?

“I think the doctors went as far as they could, unfortunately when something is destined to happen it is out of anyone’s hands.”

-Nothing could make a difference?

“In the case of Hiromi, to date it is not known for sure how to detect this syndrome (of HELLP), it can be confused with preeclampsia and many things that nothing to do, and when they already realize it there is no way to reverse it. ”.

-Have you dreamed of her again?

“No, since that time I have not dreamed of Hiromi or my daughter, although I would like to do so again.”

-You recently uploaded a photo holding your baby, why did you share it?

“One morning I saw the film Unexpected Beauty, by Will Smith, and it touched my heart because the protagonist also loses his daughter. It made me aware of the loss of Juliet and I wanted to share a photo uploading it with a message that was born to me at that time ”.

-Do you want to spend your life alone or are you excited about a new love, regardless of the fact that Hiromi will always live in your heart?

“God puts the right people in your path, but today I am calm, at peace and happy,” he concluded.

Fernando always remembers her.

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