Declining Birthrates Spark Renewed Focus on Faith, Finances in Mate Selection
WASHINGTON D.C. – As U.S.fertility rates continue to fall, a growing chorus of Christian leaders are urging young adults to prioritize faith and financial responsibility when seeking a life partner, challenging prevailing cultural norms that emphasize career advancement and delayed commitment.
Chuck Bentley, CEO of Crown Financial Ministries, founded by the late Larry Burkett, argues that a focus on biblical principles – loving God wholeheartedly (Deuteronomy 6:5) and extending kindness and forgiveness (Ephesians 4:32) – should be central to the search for a spouse.He emphasizes that financial compatibility isn’t about wealth, but about shared values and responsible stewardship.
“Financial security is a worthwhile goal, but don’t let it stop you from finding God’s best for your future spouse!” Bentley writes. “Faith and character are more important than money.With those two traits, a couple can learn to handle money wisely while married.”
The call to action comes as statistics demonstrate the benefits of marriage, prompting concern over the increasing postponement of marriage in favor of pursuing financial “success” and personal freedom. The article highlights specific qualities to seek in a potential spouse, including:
* A commitment to reading and believing the Bible.
* A work ethic rooted in serving God.
* Disciplined spending habits and budgeting skills.
* A commitment to saving.
* Contentment with modest means.
* Generosity in giving.
* A heart for serving others.
The piece draws on scripture, citing Hebrews 13:4-5, which encourages honoring marriage and avoiding the love of money, and Proverbs 18:22, stating that finding a wife is finding a good thing and obtaining favor from the Lord. Psalm 127:3 is also referenced, describing children as a heritage from the Lord.
bentley hosts the daily radio broadcast My MoneyLife, featured on over 1,000 Christian stations nationwide, and is the author of Economic Evidence for God?. Crown Financial Ministries offers a range of resources, including podcasts, videos, courses, and calculators, to support couples in building a godly financial foundation. Resources can be found at https://www.crown.org/resources-category/family-finance/.
