Keith Urban Admits Early Career Choices nearly Derailed Marriage to Nicole Kidman
Country superstar Keith Urban has revealed a period early in his marriage to Nicole Kidman where his relentless touring schedule and personal struggles nearly cost them their relationship. In a recent interview, Urban confessed to a time when he prioritized his career over his family, leading to a painful reckoning with Kidman and a commitment to prioritizing their life together.
The couple, married as 2006, have long presented a united front, but urban’s candid admission sheds light on the challenges faced during his ascent to global fame. The near-breakdown occured as Urban battled personal demons and embarked on extensive concert tours following the birth of their first daughter, Sunday Rose, in 2008.Kidman, a celebrated actress with her own demanding career, expressed feeling neglected and unsupported, prompting Urban to confront his priorities.
“I was spiraling,” Urban told a publication, detailing a period of intense self-doubt and professional pressure. “I was working so hard, and I wasn’t home enough. I wasn’t present enough. And Nicole… she was incredibly patient,but she was also incredibly honest. She said, ‘I can’t do this if you’re not here.'”
The wake-up call prompted Urban to seek treatment and re-evaluate his life. He significantly scaled back his touring commitments and focused on building a stronger foundation with Kidman and their growing family, which later included daughter Faith Margaret via surrogate in 2010. Kidman, who was previously married to Tom Cruise and shares two children with him, has spoken openly about the importance of interaction and mutual support in a successful partnership.
“We’re always working through stuff, but it’s very much love-based, so there’s an enormous amount of give and take,” Kidman shared in a 2021 Harper’s Bazaar interview. “I want him to have the best life he can have,and he responds the same way.”
The couple recently celebrated their anniversary,with Kidman posting a heartfelt message on Instagram. Their enduring relationship serves as a testament to their commitment to navigating life’s challenges together, a journey Urban acknowledges was nearly derailed by his own ambition. The revelation offers a rare glimpse behind the carefully curated public image of one of Hollywood’s most enduring couples, highlighting the ongoing work required to maintain a thriving marriage amidst the pressures of fame.
